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ktbfencing

31 / F / straight / Single

Monroe, North Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
—
Income
—
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am creative, intelligent, and open-minded.

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My Self-Summary

I'm recently divorced, and I have a 7 year old son, who is the absolute light of my life. I haven't dated in 10 years, so this is still pretty new to me. I'm looking for someone who makes me laugh and will treat me right! I'm very creative, open-minded, kind, caring, energetic, and outgoing.

If you are at all familiar with the Meyers-Briggs personality assessment, I'm an ENFP.

I'm not looking for game players, meaningless sex, or a baby daddy. But I am looking to test the dating waters for a while until I find someone worth settling down with.

What I’m doing with my life

Putting it back together! I'm out of a terrible situation, and I'm happy to be free to meet new people and try new things! I've had drama for years, and I'm done with that part of my life.

I was laid off from my job in Human Resources last year, and I've been looking for something full-time ever since. I do work part-time as a referee. I'm still financially fairly secure, even without a full-time job, so I'm not looking for someone to "take care of me." Until I find something, I spend a lot of time with my son, do a lot of zumba, and work on my house. Yay for power tools!!!!!

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I’m really good at

Cooking. At least, I haven't had any complaints or nasty food poisoning incidents! I actually enjoy cooking too. I don't look at it as a chore at all, and I love to try new recipes. Unfortunately, since becoming single, I don't really have anyone to cook for! Volunteers?

As for other things, I was a music major in college, so I definitely have some aptitude in that area, although I don't really do anything with it professionally.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm tall and Irish. I'm right around 6', with reddish hair, blue eyes, and freckles. I'm really a european mutt, but Irish seems to be the only thing that shows. I get a lot of "Wow. You are really tall", and, "Are you Irish?" *sigh*

In the last six months, I've become addicted to the gym, so I've lost close to 50 pounds, and I'm still losing. Most people who know me notice my crazy weight loss. (In a good way.) I'm proud of it, and I feel better than I ever have.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Books tend to choose me, instead of me choosing them. I do like to read though. Right now, I'm in the middle of reading Wicked since I saw the stage show last year.

Movies: Some of my favorites include, The Princess Bride, The American President, The Replacements, The Usual Suspects, and anything Disney (but particularly Mulan.)

Food: I love to try new things! I actually try to go out and try new ethnic foods as often as I can. Thai is definitely my favorite though.

The six things I could never do without

COFFEE! (I'm addicted), my friends, music, my car, and air conditioning!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything. I'm constantly analyzing situations, people, and stuff in general. Right now, I think a lot about my future and what it will bring. I'm still trying to feel out this whole internet dating thing.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging with my friends or my son, or maybe going out for dinner, coffee, a party, etc. Sometimes, I just like to hang out for a quiet evening at my house. Depends on the Friday night I guess!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm addicted to Survivor. I know, it's ridiculous and scripted and very high drama, but it's a guilty pleasure and I just can't help myself! It's like a car accident - you just can't help but look.

You should message me if

You are genuinely nice guy (and not married)! No really. I'm not interested in being anyone's "friend with benefits". I'm really just looking for an interesting guy. I want someone that I can have a reasonably intelligent conversation with, and can make me laugh. Being recently divorced, I haven't had the opportunity to meet new people in a long time. I'm pretty laid-back in general, and I'd like someone who is also. Extra points if you're into music or motorcycles though.... ;)

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