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35 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:58pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from law school
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I have definitely had the life experience to know what I am looking for in a man. Not the consumate bachelor type, and yet not a serial dater either. I believe in relationships, but the connection has to be utterly authentic. Up for it though, if the right guy comes my way.

On the lighter side: I'm a goofball and expert story teller. I'm happy to risk my dignity to make my friends laugh. I'm one of those guys with a few close friends - I won't know everyone at the bar if we go out for drinks. I'm passionate, responsible and thoughtful about other people's emotions, and can be very romantic when i feel safe.

I am creative and honest.
What I’m doing with my life
After 12 years in LA which included a Bachelors in Music from UCLA and a JD from Loyola Law School, I work as a political consultant/lobbyist up here in San Francisco. Been here for about three years now and still love exploring the city. I do love my job and I am an eternally optimistic person, so most days get a "thumbs up" from me.

On the artistic side I am a clarinetist with the San Francisco Sinfonietta Orchestra and the San Francisco Wind Ensemble these days. Keeps me busy!
I’m really good at
Expressing myself, communicating with others, and maximizing downtime.
The first things people usually notice about me
First 5 seconds: eyes and smile
First 5 minutes: sense of humor
First 5 years: loyalty, consistency
The six things I could never do without
my family, my laptop, my pit bull, my ipod, my friends, the gym, good sex, my sense of humor, the ability to break silly rules. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oh this could get deep! I think about the direction of my life a lot. I want to do it right. I think this is our one big shot, and I want to look back at it all when I am old and grey and say "yeah, I did a good job on that."
On a typical Friday night I am
As a single guy: getting dinner and drinks with my friends
In a relationship: cooking dinner at home and planning the coming weekend's adventures with my guy. "Adventure" can be anything from Marin headlands hikes to a Netflix marathon curled up together on the couch. Its about the company you keep, after all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I admitted it here it wouldn't be very private, now would it?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
We sound like a match or you want to know more: I love a friendly hello!