Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


30 Chicago, IL Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 28
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a computer nerd and gamer, who enjoys biking, talking to friends and reading. I grew up in the suburbs, moved to Chicago for college and decided I like it here.

My current main hobby is finding interesting movie/TV/video-game props 3D printing them, then painting them. My collection is still small, but it's fun to work on.

Oh, and last time I checked my Myers Briggs, I'm an introverted, intuitive, feeling, perceptive with Love Languages quality-time and physical touch. I also enjoy deep, thoughtful conversations.

I'm increasingly operating under a philosophy of positive contribution. If someone wants to be part of something they need to positively contribute to making it happen. People who veto anything must provide a workable alternative. Failure to propose an alternative or work toward finding and communicating an alternative retracts the veto as well.
It applies to me and the people around me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Traveling to the future one minute at a time and making the world a stranger place by being in it.

Otherwise, I work as a software developer at a Chicago electronic document signing company. I spend my time playing games, surfing the web and talking to friends.

I like riding my bike as a means of transit, still, because I otherwise dislike exercising.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, empathizing, playing games, being sarcastic but not picking up on other people's sarcasm. Troubleshooting problems with computers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look like I just biked here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This is primarily a representative list of things I like.

Books: Rubyfruit Jungle, Caiphas Cain: Hero of the Imperium, Fuzzy Logic, Pattern Recognition, Spook Country, Zero History, and Dresden Files. I mostly stick to Science Fantasy or Fantasy, with a few exceptions.

movies: Mad Max: Fury Road, Shawshank Redemption, Batman, 13th Warrior, Secretary, Perks of Being a Wallflower

Shows: The West Wing, Babylon 5, Ghost in the Shell: Stand Alone Complex, Mythbusters, Scrapheap Challenge.

music: Punk, Rock, Ambient, Electronic, most anything that I can play in the background.
Deus Ex - Siren Synapse (

Food: tend toward vegetarian, not too spicy, willing to try most foods once. My diet: "Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants."

games: Boardgames: Settlers of Catan, Revolution, Firefly boardgame; Videogames: Invisible Inc., Deus Ex, Quake, League of Legends; RPGs: Fiasco, Don't Rest Your Head, Fate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my bike
(video/board/role-playing) games
A computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why do people post pictures of themself and 1-5 other people on OKC? It's cool that you have friends (or take pictures with strangers), but is that really the goal of your profile pictures?
Bonus points for pictures with people of the opposite gender or at weddings.

What are the odds of putting together a fun role-playing game group through OKC?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally, hanging out with a fun group of people. Books, movies, shows or just watching a sunset are also options for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I find ankle length skirts attractive on women and I don't know why.

I want to set my Religion to "Agnostic Extremist" but I won't let me and it'd be incorrect. I just want to see how people react to it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you'd like to talk to me. I can't read your mind and if you're waiting for me to do something you'll be waiting a very long time.
Also note that "Liking" me with that star thing means fuck-all because I don't see who has and has not clicked it and only randomly get emails telling me who clicks it.

Pluses include:

- You are an independent woman who has or wants her own career and life.
- You like the idea of curling up on a couch with someone and reading for hours.
- You're Lutenant Commander Susan Ivanova (Babylon 5), or a less fictional facsimile thereof. Lutenant Ripley or Vasquez (from the movie Aliens) also works.
- You're traveling through space and time on a 6,580,000,000,000,000,000,000 ton ship that's powered by a fusion power-plant so big and bright It's visible from light-years away and you think it'd be cool to take a vacation on a different ship one day.