My current main hobby is finding interesting movie/TV/video-game props 3D printing them, then painting them. My collection is still small, but it's fun to work on. I'm also taking improv classes, because it's fun.
Oh, and last time I checked my Myers Briggs, I'm an introverted, intuitive, feeling, perceptive with Love Languages quality-time and physical touch. I also enjoy deep, thoughtful conversations.
I'm increasingly operating under a philosophy of positive contribution. If someone wants to be part of something they need to positively contribute to making it happen. People who veto anything must provide a workable alternative. Failure to propose an alternative or work toward finding and communicating an alternative retracts the veto as well.
It applies to me and the people around me.
I've also accepted what the OKC blog said: "Basically, people are exactly as shallow as their technology allows them to be." and I say that fully understanding that I'm no more of a special exception to it than you, dear reader, are.