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kumabachi

29 Royal Oak, MI Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:22am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I think it's important to say up front that I currently have a boyfriend who is my primary partner. His profile is Thom88. We've have an open relationship for the past six months, and we're currently giving poly a try. I'm not a monogamous person, and I'll probably never be a monogamous person, so if you're looking for a monogamous commitment you should probably look elsewhere.

I consider myself bisexual (or pansexual, whichever. I'm just as interested in people who are trans/genderqueer as I am in cis people). I currently have a wonderful boyfriend, but I'd be interested in meeting new people both for friendship and sex. I consider myself to be pretty kinky. While I wouldn't turn down someone who isn't kinky, I definitely prefer some element of kink in my relationships.

I like reading, writing, learning to play music (I've never really gotten the hang of it), and playing all kinds of games. I'm especially fond of fighting games such as BlazBlue, P4A, Guilty Gear, MvC3, and SF4. I have a BA in Computer Science and Japanese. I haven't really done much with the Japanese since then, and I'm a bit sad about that.

I'm a skeptic and an atheist. I love listening to The Skeptic's Guide to the Universe. I think science is awesome, and I love technology.

I'm a vegetarian, and quite serious about it, but not evangelical. I just finished working at a job as a soup cook at a restaurant, and I still enjoy cooking (although sometimes I make weird practically inedible things as experiments).
What I’m doing with my life
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I just moved to Royal Oak, and am currently looking for a job in web development.

I'm one of those people that gets obsessed with hobbies for short periods of time and then drops them for new obsessions. I'm currently just getting back into rock climbing, so if anyone's interested in joining me for some sessions at Planet Rock, let me know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Programming and learning. I'm great at picking up the basics of new things really quickly. I have a bit of a short attention span, so I'm constantly moving from thing to thing.

I've also been told that I'm good at teaching. I'm skeptical, although it's something that I enjoy doing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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No idea. I'd have to ask somebody.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Neil Gaiman, China Miéville, and John Scalzi are some of my favorite authors. I've been reading Ancillary Justice lately, and I'm loving it. I want to read more science fiction and fantasy books that have an element of sexual or gender transgression, so if you have any recommendations on that score I'd love to hear about them.

I've fallen off the webcomic bandwagon lately, but I guess it might be relevant to note that I'm still a bit of a Homestuck.

I like indie movies with dry humor. Hanabi is one of my favorite movies, and so are Life Aquatic and Saved. I love anything that Jean-Pierre Jeunet has made, especially Amélie. Also, The Prestige is amazing.

I also like non-epic fantasy movies. Stardust and The Princess Bride are my favorites. I also like Pan's Labyrinth and Labyrinth, but I secretly don't like Dark Crystal near as much as everyone else seems to.

The Killers, Ben Folds, and Amanda Palmer are some of my go tos. I have a general weakness for piano+vocals. I've been listening to All Songs Considered lately to try to expand my music horizons a bit. I'm really excited about the return of Sleater-Kinney.

I have to list magazines on here, just so that I can mention Coilhouse. It has great art and great articles. I am sad that it is over.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Boyfriend,
Friends,
Kink,
Books,
Games,
My computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I've been spending a lot of time thinking about issues of gender and sexism lately. I think our society has some really messed up views on gender. I don't know if I would call myself a feminist, but I strongly support a lot of feminist positions, and I think issues of gender equality are some of the most important facing us today.

I also feel frustrated by the continued racism in this country. If you think that being "colorblind" is a good solution to racism, if you think that police violence against black people in this country is justified, if you are in favor of voter id laws, or if you think that white people are the real oppressed minority, I don't want to talk to you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You're pretty likely to catch me either playing board games or hanging out with kinky friends at a bar. Sometimes, though, I just like to stay in and take it easy.
You should message me if
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I'm kinky, non-monogamous, and bisexual. I'm just starting out on the road to Polyamory. I have a boyfriend, and I'm not looking to get out of that relationship. If none of that bothers you, I'd love to hear from you.

I'm interested in making new friends since I just moved to the area. I'd love to hear from people that just want to make friends, although I'd appreciate it if you would let me know that's what you're looking for right off the bat. I'm also looking for another climbing partner for indoor climbing.

I'm also interested in a friends with benefits situation, or in casual sex. Since I have a boyfriend, I'm a bit more interested in women than men right now, but feel free to hit me up either way.