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My self-summary Propose an edit

I'm an avid nature lover, always interested in seeing new places, traveling and trying new things. I enjoy exploring differing viewpoints, solving difficult puzzles and learning. I am witty and very open minded. While a bit shy, I am extremely sincere and try to be direct in expression. I try to see the best in others and appreciate people for who they are. I am supportive of and loyal to my friends and family. I am happy with who I am and will be glad to find connections with good people, but as an independent person, that is not my driving force.

I am a gentleman by upbringing and by choice. I honor my commitments and take responsibility for my actions. I always mean well and I stand apart from most guys because of this. If it seems otherwise, please ask for clarification. I am confident of who I am and try to be consistent in behavior. I fall and make mistakes and am far from perfect, but I stay true to my ideals and commitments.

With a thirst for knowledge, I strongly believe in life long education. Real knowledge is to know the extent of one's ignorance. I don't waste time on regret, but am conscious of my decisions and learn from my experiences to do better the next time. I strive to better myself and those around me, seeing each new experience as a chance to grow. Life is not just about finding yourself, it is about taking responsibility for creating yourself.

While not religious, I live in awe of the natural order of our beautiful world and I respect the beliefs of others. I don't subscribe to any particular religion, but I adhere to a moral code that I have built by taking the best from the many philosophies and religions I have studied and my own experiences. I am a highly contemplative person who isn't afraid to consider the possibilities of anything and leave myself open for new paradigms. I entertain many new ideas without having to accept them as my own. I don't think it is possible to know the world as it is, but it sure is fun aspiring to clarify our muddled perceptions. I like to have my paradigm proven wrong. I believe there is something bigger than humanity, but our current religions are means for control rather than guides to truth.

Myers-Briggs Type Indicator: balanced INTP/INFP(Thinker/Idealist)
I: shy and independent
N: very intuitive from being able to see anything from multiple viewpoints and having a big picture approach
T/F: empathetic and an innovative thinker
P: extremely open minded and adaptive

I am pretty quiet when you first meet me, but it is worth your time to get to know me. You'll have to meet/talk with me to find out more!

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I've been working as a software engineer for over a year. I make it a point to enjoy life a bit every day, be it learning something new, dancing to some music, reading an inspirational book, encouraging a friend or just stopping to smell the flowers. Some of my recent activities include ballroom dance lessons, McGuires running club, roadtrips, meeting fun people and running around finding interesting things to do.

"Think of life as a terminal illness, because, if you do, you will live it with joy and passion, as it ought to be lived." - Anna Quindlen

I'm really good at Propose an edit

I excel at intuitive, big-picture thinking. I'm quite good at solving puzzles and designing things. I like being myself and holding to my values. I am good at understanding people and seeing things from multiple perspectives. Nobody can laugh at my life better than I can!

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I am quiet, confident and a very perceptive listener.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Some of my favorite things I've read:
The Prophet - Kahlil Gibran
Ender's Game series - Orson Scott Card
Stranger in a Strange Land - Robert A. Heinlein
Dune - Frank Herbert
Authors of many great things:Tom Clancy, Dr. Seuss, Isaac Asimov, Arthur C. Clarke, Robert A. Heinlein, Gene Roddenberry, George Lucas, J.R.R. Tolkien
I like pretty much anything that challenges our paradigm
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Some movies: Religulous, WALL-E, Blade Runner, Gattaca, It’s a Wonderful Life, Hero, The Sound of Music, Powder, The Fountain, Children of Men, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Impostor, The Matrix, Braveheart, 2001 A Space Odyessy, A.I., I Robot, Groundhog Day, Solaris, Bicentennial Man, Saving Private Ryan, The Day the Earth Stood Still, Mission to Mars, Dude Wheres My Car, Rush Hour, anything that makes you think, most sci-fi, comedy, action, suspense, some romance and drama, very few horror

My last.fm page
Some of my favorite types of music include: metal(prog/thrash/symphonic), electronica (trance/chill/psych/goa), jazz, classical, some rock and an assortment of others. I'm not a big fan of country or rap, but some are ok. Artists such as: Metallica, Dream Theater, Cake, Enya, Depeche Mode, Kosheen, Röyksopp, 311, A Perfect Circle, Apocalyptica, Frank Sinatra, Kenny G, Evanescence, Lacuna Coil, Modest Mouse, Rob Dougan, Ozzy

For food, I like just about anything healthy. I like spicy things, sushi, Thai, Indian, Mediterranean, fish, fruit, veggies, chicken, bison, and trying new things. I enjoy cooking, but am not particularly good at it (yet).

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

music, integrity, family and friends, balance, health, yummies in my tummy, humor

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

career, my direction in life, philosophy, improving myself through action and attitude adjustment, optimism, interesting new things to try out, things and people that I'm thankful for, how humorous religion is

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Dinner out, seeing a live band, a movie or a little dancing. Other common things are a road trip, relaxing at the beach or just curled up with a book and some music. I pretty much do my own thing, but if the company is good, I'm up for about anything.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I really like to dance, but hate painfully loud music. Is that a paradox?

I think games are meant only for the card table, computer or bedroom. Head games are for the eternally adolescent.

You should message me if Propose an edit

you think we might have something in common, click or you just want to make friends with someone new.

Or...look me up on Myspace(most of my profile comes from there and changes slowly filter into here)

I'm mainly here to meet and socialize with good people. If my profile interests you and you're looking for a friend (not a fling), feel free to send me a message! I like to meet a variety of people. I like real people, those who don't feel they need to hide who they are. I prefer to spend my time with people with the intelligence for quality conversations, wisdom to make the right decisions and civility to behave with dignity in trying situations. I am generous with my time and myself, so I like friends who can appreciate me for being me, not just what I can do for them. I respect candor and expect the truth at all times. In a friend, I prefer people who are considerate of others and can act like an adult.

In a woman, I am looking for someone who enjoys the little things in life, smiles at children and is able to laugh at themselves. I'm looking for someone compassionate with which to share feelings, ideas, experiences and life. I am very honest and expect the same. I don't play games, just live my life to the best of my ability. If you're interested in me, be direct about it, don't beat around the bush. I'm looking for a woman who knows how to open her own door, but doesn't mind a gentleman. I am my own person with my own interests so I'm looking for someone who wants a stable partnership, not a codependency. She needs to understand that a healthy relationship takes commitment, good communication, honesty, trust, and lots of hard work, not just feelings. I have a number of interests that I'd like to share, but I expect you to have your own as well.

Important: I am not a religious person. I have built my own strong morals and life philosophy from studying many religions and various teachings. If you think this makes me a bad person because I do not pray to your particular sect's special guy in the sky, do not waste your time telling me I need Jesus in my life.

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