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kunderachik

39 Phoenix, AZ Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm from the Midwest, but I have lived in Phoenix for the past 15 years.

I'm pensive, yet kind and outgoing (in a non-obnoxious way), with a witty sense of observational humor. I am independent and assertive, yet have deeply close relationships w/friends+family.

I am comfortable in my skin and at ease with who I am. I am ready to exchange stories (and laugh) w/a "partner-in-crime", but I have no problem spending time alone in lieu of spending time w/someone who isn't a good fit.

I am a "seeker"...of new ideas, others' interesting stories, and solutions to problems. I'm thoughtful and educated, and I commit myself to whatever is in front of me. I run a small business I'm proud of, and I have several additional business ideas I hope to develop over the next several years. I love the freedom, flexibility and independence my business affords me to do things I enjoy personally, like traveling and hitting the theatre regularly.

I got the traveling bug at a young age. I was raised in a military family and traveled across the US, throughout much of Europe, and in several parts of Africa, before the age of 12.

I love to laugh...really LAUGH...with those around me at the absurd moments life presents. I love observing others, as well as myself, and I appreciate our differences, as much as our similarities. As far as I'm concerned, our differences are "the good stuff"!

What I'm looking for...There are, of course, going to be variables I may not have thought of, but here are some general ideas floating around in my mind (in no particular order): Someone who is comfortable and at ease with the overall trajectory of their life. Someone who is generally healthy/fit without it controlling their every move. Someone who enjoys traveling (International travel is a plus), and makes the effort to do so. Someone who is working toward *their own definition* of success, both personally and professionally. Someone who knows when it's time to be serious, when it's time to be open to new ideas (because perhaps old ideas are no longer helpful), and when it's time to LAUGH...out loud! :) Let me know if you are actively pursuing a life of either time or location independence, and someone who sees business as an opportunity to grow (personally + professionally).

On appearance: It certainly IS part of chemistry, but I tend to remember how someone made me feel the first time we met, rather than detailed physical attributes.

Finally, nice guys (who can be confident, but not arrogant) finish first in my book.
What I’m doing with my life
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I started a business in 2012. I spend part of my time growing the business, and part of my time doing things that fulfill me personally (Traveling, reading, spending time w/friends and family, studying philosophy, exercising, learning about spiritual styles that suit me). Both of these pursuits are equally important to me, at this stage.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, being a friend, problem solving, writing, thinking creatively, speaking French, reading others, offering moral support to friends/family, being compassionate and empathetic when the situation calls for it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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#1 Smile, #2 Long Hair, #3 Eyes...and a "Quiet Confidence".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Unbearable Lightness of Being, Immortality, Count of Monte Cristo, The Book Thief. Movies: Nebraska, Dallas Buyer's Club, Cinema Paradiso, Amelie, Run Lola Run, Il Postino, Lost in Translation, anything directed by Aronofsky. Music: Eddie Vedder (solo + w/Pearl Jam), Springsteen, Pink, I'm open to all music. Food: Thai, Indian, Indonesian, French, Spanish...Really, I'm open to all foods. Not a "finicky" eater at all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, family, good book, passport, journal, and a camera of some sort.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can increase my knowledge base and grow my spirit simultaneously.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I attend a practical philosophy class, have dinner w/a friend(s), maybe wind down w/a movie, and head to bed to prepare for an early morning walk/coffee w/friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no trouble introducing myself to, and finding something in common with, say 200 strangers (individually). Place me on a podium in front of those same 200 people and I'll shake like a leaf.
I find it easier to give my attention to others, rather than to seek to be the center of attention. :)
*Updated 07/12/14: Conquered my fear of speaking by asking my friend (who coaches TEDTalk Speech) for help...Spoke in front a group of Phoenix business owners yesterday...and hit it out of the park! Proud to evolve and overcome this fear.*
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