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kurtk73123

38 / M / Gay / Single

Ferndale, Michigan

His Details

Last Online
May 12
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Well, I'm getting back into the dating scene after a bit of time off...I like to try new things, meet new people, but have found an excuse lately to not. But no more!

Other things you should know going in -- I randomly quote songs, tv shows, or clever things people have said. So, if you say anything clever or profound, I may have to borrow it. (Don't worry, I give credit!)

I like Ansel Adams, Frank Lloyd Wright, and Albert Kahn. (Albert Kahn mostly because he's local and I work in a building he designed. It's very cool.)

I also like the word circumlocution. Note that I don't like circumlocution as a practice, just the word.

I am fun, witty, and a tad geeky.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm pretty much in a good place - I love my job, I have a great family and a great group of friends. So, even though things are going well, I'm at the point in my life where there's something missing. The reality is, you've gotta put yourself out there!

So specifics...I work in administration at a local university, I have about 18.75 really good friends. I'm pretty close with my family. I love traveling, even quick weekend trips up north are great. My favorite place is the Leelanau Peninsula in northern Michigan, right outside Traverse City. Lots of hiking, wineries, and relaxation!

Not sure what I want to do long term. As I said, I love my job, and I love what I do, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I plan on being there for the duration. Open to new possibilities.
I’m really good at
listening. And I'm pretty good at being honest, once I get to know someone.

I'm good at avoiding playing cards. Very good at it. But, a dice game, well, I crumble. Bunko!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most of the time, I read non-fiction - history, current events, social commentaries. I used to work at a book store, so the collection got a tad out of hand. Some favorite books: Truman, There Are No Children Here, A Personal History, Lord of the Rings, pretty much anything by James Patterson (quick and easy reads!) Movies - I'll watch almost anything, except a Julia Roberts flick. Music is pretty diverse, my iPod has everything from Dropkick Murphys to Mozart, from Pat Benetar to some folk. As a random aside, I love gadgets. They're just plain fun.
The six things I could never do without
1) family
2) my friends,
3) my phone
4) my car
5) entertaining friends
6) oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
a lot of things. I think, long and hard, about most things. Until I make a decision, then I move on fairly quickly. I figure I can deal with the consequences (if any) when the actually creep up.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing pretty much anything - i might go out after work with the coworkers, meet up with friends for dinner and drinks or bowling, or might just stay home and get caught up on my netflix queue.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was fired from being an altar boy. (It's not nearly as sordid a tale as you're imagining.)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you liked anything i said...even if you didn't...i might take constructive criticism well. but then, i might not. who knows?