Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm nerdy, awkward, and apparently quite adorable. I love
learning and teaching. I find information addicting and can easily
get sucked into an interesting book or web page. I prefer to hang
out with smart people who can teach me things.
I'm shy in new situations and around new people. In the past I
put my foot in my mouth a lot. Now I prefer to listen and watch
until I'm more comfortable. I enjoy spending time with small groups
of friends. I'm strongly in favor of cuddling. I'm loyal to my
close friends and would like more friends to share adventures with.
I enjoy cooking for people.
I am somewhat of a contradiction. By day I appear to be a naive
and driven software engineer. At night I hang out with wonderful
people with various hair colors, piercings, tattoos, and delightful
perversions. I'm happy that they accept me even though I wear
button down shirts sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
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My two primary passions are learning
and computer science
. I build
software for a living, I contribute to open source, and I'm
becoming a technical speaker.
I want to be a continual learner. I believe that everyone can teach
me something. I try to learn something new everyday. Some days I'm
more successful than others.
For fun I ski, knit, cook, read, and explore restaurants, zoos, and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm becoming a pretty good cook and I like cooking for people. I
play a couple instruments, and can pick out simple melodies on many
others. I'm also pretty good at all that school stuff like math,
science, and history.
I'm not so good at things that require physical coordination,
talking on the phone, or being charming and amusing in a room full
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. After that it depends on the context. Sometimes its my
eyes. Sometimes its my brains. Sometimes its the company I keep or
the expression on my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Walt Whitman and enjoy most poetry. Recently I've enjoyed
The Song of Ice and Fire, Vonnegut, The Kite Runner, Neil Gaiman,
The Millennium Trilogy, Surely You're Joking Mr Feynman, and The
My taste in music ranges from classic rock (Eagles, Pink Floyd) to
classical (Mozart, Beethoven,[Saint Saens, Liszt) to rock (Pixies,
We Are Scientists). I've met little music I actually dislike but
equally little that I'm in a raging passion about. I enjoy live
performances and playing music more than recordings.
I enjoy eating curry, pasta, swiss food, homemade soups, and most
sea creatures. No octopuses since someone convinced me to stop
eating intelligent animals.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a library or the internet
someone or something to care for
nature to retreat into
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My brain rarely shuts up. Its constantly pondering and making
connections about things I see, hear, and feel. I spend a lot of
time thinking about learning and how humans and animals construct
knowledge. I think about computers and code and how to teach
computers to learn.
When my mind is less philisophical I think about news, politics, food, sex, friends, and
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night is date night with my primary partner (and has been
for a long time). Usually that means food, TV of some sort, and
time for physical affection.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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, and kinky
. I'm looking for a partner with
poly experience, like minded friends, ski buddies, or someone for
sharing cuddles, kisses, and perhaps more kinky fun.
You should message me if
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You like smart nerdy girls and our match or friend percentage is
higher than 80. Really 80 isn't too tough.
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