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kutekarli

26 / F / Straight / Single

Bloomington, Indiana

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:38am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Finnish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hello there! My name is Karli, and I am a graduate student at IU. I am also a single mom; I have the best, sweetest little boy in the entire world. He comes first, and grad school comes next. Basically, I am here because I would like to see what else is out there. Being a full-time mom and full-time grad student doesn't exactly make for an exciting dating life.

I speak Russian, some Kazakh as well as a little bit of Azeri and Finnish. I hope to work for the State Department one day. Other than that, I love to cook, sing, listen to music, dance, read, and play with my son!

At this point in my life, I am really just looking for someone to date. It has been awhile since I've been on a "real" date, and I think it's time that tried again. I am not a serial dater, therefore I am hoping to make a connection with someone that I can see at least a few times a month. I am a sucker for romance, and I am tired of only seeing it in movies. I want to experience it! C'mon guys...whatever happened to bringing a girl flowers, opening the car door for her, and settling for a kiss on the first date? What is the rush?! And, guys, just because I am a single mother doesn't mean that I am looking for my new "baby daddy." My son is my responsibility, and I don't plan on sharing the privilege of raising him with someone else for a very long time. So chill out, okay? Sheesh.

Here is what I am looking for: an intelligent, kind, considerate, open-minded and HONEST man. He must have at least a Bachelor's. He must also like to travel--I've been all over the world and would love to find someone who enjoys seeing new places and experiencing different cultures as much as I do. I want to feel that "spark" with someone, meaning that I need to be attracted to the man that I'm with. I find all different types of guys attractive, although I prefer that they be taller than me (please, oh please be taller than me!). I love kids, but, honestly, I would prefer that whoever I end up with have no children at this time. I am not up for the "baby mama drama" thing. I like my life to be drama-free. I wouldn't rule out a good man just because he has a child, but I won't get involved with someone who has a horrible relationship with the child's mother and is constantly bickering with her about one thing or another. I've been there and done that, and, frankly, I'm over it. My son's father isn't really in the picture and lives overseas, therefore there is very little drama in my life as far as that goes.
What I’m doing with my life
I am getting my Master's and will graduate this May! Then I will look for jobs all over the world!
I’m really good at
Learning different languages, school in general, and cooking. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
That's a toughy. I love Russian lit, therefore some of my favorite books are: Master and Margarita, Anna Karenina, Crime and Punishment, We, A Hero of Our Time, and so on and so forth. I love romantic comedies, no matter how stereotypical that sounds. I also like dramas that have something to do with history. My favorite show is True Blood, and I love ethnic food (Chinese, Greek, Turkish...you name it).
The six things I could never do without
1.) My son
2.) My parents
3.) Love and affection
4.) A dream to fulfill
5.) Honesty!
6.) Faithfulness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How many things I need to accomplish before the night is over! There are simply too few hours in a day!
On a typical Friday night I am
Putting my son to bed and starting to wind down. I might have a glass of wine and watch a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love too deeply and fall too hard, it seems. I am very sensitive and easily-hurt.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are educated, have a job or are in school full-time, are honest, sincere, and are expecting more than a booty call. Please DO NOT message me if you are simply looking to get laid. Sorry, but I'm not that kind of girl.