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27 Ridgewood, NY Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:01pm
Heteroflexible, Queer, Questioning
Hispanic / Latin, Other
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on law school
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A Guatemalan-born Nicaraguan raised in South Florida and now in New York City.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work with a bunch of attorneys who defend detained people in deportation proceedings. Still trying to figure out the worth in non-violence and non-profits.

*Note: I start law school in the Fall. Take that as you will.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting people to spill their stories;
Riding bikes;
organizing the mess that is splitting a check amongst friends;
telling bizarre stories with a straight face;
Hiding how drunk I really am;
Discussing intersectional oppression;
Making pancakes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How I don't look my age and the grey hairs sprouting up all over my head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read way more nonfiction than fiction. I'm trying to be better about this. Some favorites are: Harvest of Empire, One Day of Life, In the Time of the Butterflies, The Grapes of Wrath, Borderlands, Pa'lante, The Motorcycle Diaries, When I was Puerto Rican, Open veins of Latin America, Killing Rage, Revolutionary Suicide, Lord of the Rings, Woman at Point Zero, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting

Said, Newton, hooks, Fanon, Anzaldua, Allende, Guevara

Ana Tijoux, Gil Scott-Heron, Lila Downs, Cafe Tacuba, RATM, Thievery Corporation, Le Tigre, Calle 13, Screaming Females, Gepe, Ojos de Brujo, Bonobo, Dilated Peoples, Bomba Estereo, SBTRKT, Ta-ku, Stromae, Talib Kweli, Sleater-Kinney, Black Flag, old school salsa and merengue (Celia forgive me for not being able to salsa) and trashy pop music on occasion.

Food? Yes.

Things I like to see with my eyes:
LOST, Matrix trilogy, Amelie, Pan's Labyrinth, The Spirit of the Beehive, Mala Educacion, Tambien la Lluvia, Contact, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, TLOK, ATLA, The Fifth Element, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Portlandia, Community, Black Jesus
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A book in my bag
Water bottle
My bike
Flor de caña
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the intricacies of oppression, macro and micro. Cats. Dogs. Where to find Nicaraguan food in NYC (do you know?). Societal collapse.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hopefully imbibing, sharing stories, going to dance/karaoke, or engaging in high-brow intellectual conversations about state power with my cats.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to name and give back stories to inanimate objects and animals. I've been told I have an insanely active imagination.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to ride bikes, eat tacos, discuss kyriarchy, do some urban or non urban hiking, take me to find Nicaraguan food, or if you've just got a kick ass story.

All "hey, what's up" messages and their variants, "hey, how are you doing?" will be promptly deleted. You all can be more creative than that.