Thanks for checking me out! I am an original soul. I know that everyone is unique, however, I have never met ANYONE even close to being like me in my entire life. Unfortunately, that is what I seek. All of my past serious relationships have been with opposites. While I did learn alot and grow as a person from the stark contrasts, I was never as happy in those relationships as I am single. What I am looking for now is someone carved from the same chunk of rock that I was. I have an *UPDATE*, I am in a wonderful committed relationship now, however am going to leave this profile up for new friends.

First and foremost, I am happy. Happy with the world, happy with my life, happy with my job, happy with my friends, happy with my family, etc. I am still striving to make things better, as "happy" does have different levels. This is where you come in. I know that the best things in life are even better when shared. I am seeking a soul that does not bring me down, and that I do not have to bring up. Yes, I am supportive in times of need, however "times of need" must be the exception, not the rule.

Second, I am very spiritual. I have a strong dislike for most organized religions, so please do not quote religious texts for me, or tell me about being saved. My spirituality comes from direct experience within of energy coursing through my body and feeling of things unseen. If you are not there in your life, that is fine, just know that you are not the one for me. Once again for clarity sake, please no practicing: Christians, Muslims, Mormons, Atheists (yes, atheism is a religion), Bahá'ís, Jehovah's Witnesses, Taoists, Buddhists, Hindus, Jews, Sikhs, Confucianists, Catholics or any other group I might have missed that meets on a regular basis. (I still love all of you, you are just not whom I am seeking.)

Third, I am a musician. I am a hand drummer at a professional level, and good singer. I have only written a couple of songs, however playing live music with a group of musicians makes my heart sing in ways I cannot describe. Any form of intense artistic expression is a plus, so please feel free to message me even if your passion is other than music.

Fourth, I am a tech. I own a computer support business that supports both PCs and Macs. We do purchasing, setup, networking, troubleshooting, repairs, tutoring, upgrading, and most likely whatever else you may need. While this is pretty specific, it describes the analytical side of my person pretty well. As a child I considered logic to be the pinnacle of development. Only when I reached my twenties did I realize that logic is only one of the many tools we have at our disposal. Now I am frantically working with my intuition and emotion to build them to the same level as my logical mind. I feel they are progressing very well. :)

Fifth, I am a father. I have always loved kids, so I knew that I would enjoy being a father. I am content with this aspect of my life and am not seeking a new mother. Yes, long term that will be a part of things, however, I will not even introduce you to them before we are so involved that we are discussing having our own children. (Most likely a year or more.) I have three kids ages 2, 4, and 6.

For the more elusive qualities, I am confident, self-sufficient, loyal, funny, reliable, wild, adventurous, magical, kind, considerate, extroverted and introverted, just, fair, soft spoken, other-worldly, fit, healthy, clean, strong (for my size), calm, even-tempered, sexual, kinky, and more stuff you will discover if you are interested. I am a night owl and rarely go to bed before 2:00 am. I usually only sleep 4-5 hours a night and have more energy than most of the people I know. For the astrologers out there, I was born at 8:32 am on May 9th, 1975, in Southern Michigan.

If you would like to know more just ask. I will answer any questions you may have honestly and completely.

Right now I am running Clean Systems computer repair and playing music with whomever I can. The band I played with for 8 years recently broke up. I have my kids 5 pm to 10 pm, Mon-Fri and one whole weekend day. I am on good terms with my ex, however there is no chance we will ever get back together. (the one thing we do agree on)

Playing hand drums, fixing computers, pleasing my partner, opening my chakras, reading peoples eyes, keeping my word, being supportive, and most things I take seriously.

My genuine smile paired with caring eyes, ability to speak my mind without tripping on my words, ability to actually listen (unless I am busy planning my exit strategy), never ending energy, self confidence

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Books: The Superior Man, Magus of Stovolos, the P'Taah Tapes, Conversations with God, ESO: Extended Sexual Orgasm, anything Far Side,

Movies: Way too many to list. I am not fond of most dramas or gore films, and prefer sci-fi, action, comedy, suspense, or cartoons.

Food: ALL OF IT!!! Sushi, Curry, Burritos, and Pizza are all at the top of my list.

Sex
People
Food
Music
My Kids
Genuine Metaphysical Experiences

4th dimensional reality and it's implications, the nature of creation, mistakes I've made and how to avoid repeating them, what I am seeking, how to be a better father, scheduling

Out having the time of my life either on stage or with a close friend or two at a bar.

First off, I am not a very private person. Let's see, what might be along the edge of that line......I see a Shaman/Spiritual Counselor every other week.

I have not offended you with my profile so far, and you smile much of the time.