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32 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
A southern transplant to Chicago, I may be the only ethnic Cajun you'll ever meet. No drawl though, just a hint of that thing - y'know how gay white boys talk? Yeah: that, a little bit. Anyway, I work a lot and love running outdoors whenever I can. Have been somewhat of a home body as of late, but mostly because my apartment's so comfy and I read a LOT. I love witty banter and doing nice things for people without their knowing it. I prefer take out and a movie to loud bars, usually. Fuck it, you're not even reading this, you're looking at my pictures, ha!
What I’m doing with my life
Not-for-profiteer by day, tireless defender of gotham by night. Also, a singer, a runner, and a rower. I have my shit together. Anyone wanna ride bicycles across the Rockies, scuba dive off Zanzibar, or backpack across the subcontinent with me? I'll settle for a road trip to the west coast...
I’m really good at
I've been called a good writer before, I guess, though it's been years since I've had to write an essay about anything. I'm also great for knowing stupid trivia and giving obnoxiously blunt advice. You should probably consider that a warning.
The first things people usually notice about me
Definitely the hair. And I'm loving what my first few grays are doing to it. My mother had a Susan Sontag streak in the front for about a decade before everything else went white. I would love to have one of those.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The free classics section on Kindle is ah-mazing. I am fascinated by crappy infomercials, but the TV is usually background noise to whatever I'm reading. Favorite authors: Tolstoy, Garcia-Marquez, Austen, Hardy, Tolkien, McCarthy, Kingsolver.

I'll give any movie a chance, but I think that horror flicks are a waste of time. Lincoln reminded me of how the British put all of their best actors in their period pieces. Cloud Atlas was totally worth it. Les Mis was mostly worth it. I'm convinced that parsing movies into multiple parts like they've done with the Hobbit is just an attempt at gouging the moviegoer. Music is mesmerizing, but for the life of me, I think my brain isn't wired to hear the lyrics of pop songs. Ethnic foods are great, especially Indian, Chinese, and Ethiopian, in that order. I love trying new foods for the first time. Oddly though, the texture of cheesecake weirds me out and I can't handle it.
The six things I could never do without
1. Something to read. Doesn't much matter what.
2. Indian food.
3. Running shoes.
4. Tea.
5. Wikipedia.
6. A old yellow plush elephant. Don't judge.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Friendships, love, past regrets, past accomplishments, my life and its meaning in the larger world, things I'll do next, things that've come before, how to make me better than I am now, what I can do to show others I'm interested. Y'know, profound, sometimes pretentious existential shit. I should never be left alone with my thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
...already dreading Monday morning. And maybe a happy hour? Usually cut out early so I can get up early on Saturday and run or do yoga.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, commercials make me cry. Especially if there's a voice-over by Donald Sutherland. Don't know where that comes from.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends