Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am the shyest exhibitionist you will ever meet. A plus sized
woman looking for friends to go out and *DO* things with.
Preference given to someone local to me.
I am married, not looking to leave but to add to my current
relationship. If you are married or otherwise partnered be aware I
do NOT tolerate cheaters. I WILL want to talk to the other
person(s) at some point.
I am rather involved in my local alternative lifestyle groups and I
am still trying to find where exactly I fit. I can be classified as
Bi, Poly amorous, and I play on the Top side of BDSM Lifestyle. I
can be persuaded to other fun things with the proper negotiation
first. If you are looking for someone who is in the Poly or SM
lifestyle we might want to chat. If you have a FetLife profile,
even better :)
I find that I tend to go with the flow with those I am around until
a real decision needs to be made, then I am ready, willing and
able, to make it. I look for the things I have in common with
everyone. I enjoy the differences I find in people.
Contact me if you are looking for someone to chat with, watch
movies, go for a walk/amble somewhere, or you are looking for an
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to get through it with grace. Doing my best to be better at
being there for my friends and growing my circle of friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hugs and massages. Listening. Making sense out of random things
that seem to have nothing in common.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Quiet, yet somehow, not. My Hair. My Eyes. My intelligence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite book is whatever I am reading at the time that lets me
go to another reality for a little while. I like technical things
but the manuals are not written in a form of language I can
understand. I tend to read quite a bit though, and a little bit of
everything, it makes me sound like I know what I am talking about.
Not that I *DO* know what I am talking about but at least I have
been exposed to the idea.
I am a sucker for a feel good movie. Tied for first place is a
movie that makes me laugh or think. I love a good action flick. Not
much into the slapstick stupid type of movies but a good
intelligent humor is much more my style.
Music, hmmm. Wow, what do I say. I love music. I am really, really,
oh and did I mention REALLY bad at band names and the names of
songs so I almost never buy music since I don't want to spend money
on something I won't like. I listen to almost everything.
Individual tunes stick out in every genre. I love anything with a
positive message, happy and upbeat sound, lots of percussion.
Food. Yes please but hold the Brussels sprouts. Those things should
have been left in Brussels unsprouted. Blech. Mexican, Tex-Mex
(yes, Virginia there is a difference), Thai, Chinese, Japanese,
American, Greek. I did not get my current waistline by hating food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not necessarily in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, love, and the pursuit of happiness.
What would it take to buy a town where I can write the rules?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at home waiting for someone to say "Let's go..."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have to choose something??? I know...no,no that won't do.
Maybe...naw not good on a first date.
As you probably noticed in the title line I am a bisexual woman in
a poly/leather household.
You should message me if
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You are looking for friends that are shyer than you are but would
be a willing accomplice in the exploration of this thing called
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