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44 M Topanga, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 14
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm quite comfortable and happy with my life. Put simply, I have what I need and nearly all of what I want. Life is fantastic! Meeting Ms. Right would most assuredly enhance it! So, will the please Ms. Right, with a kind heart, please step forward!?!

My goal here is to actually tell you something mildly more insightful than "likes long walks along the beach..."

Please be aware I am (told I am) incredibly fit and healthy. Fitness and health need to be a high priority for you because we're considering the long game of life, not the short one.

I am a California native, like giving more than receiving, intricate, sincere, loyal, honest, spontaneous, quit-witted, happy, active, ex-athlete, "enjoy my job", sillier the more you know me, earnest, extremely-curious, funny, "well edumacated", quirky, intense, sentimental, eternally romantic, have wonderful parents and relatives, and mostly assuredly all-in-all a decent, kind hearted, guy! I consider manners a lost social grace. I believe special moments can be planned, if enough thought is put into them. I'd give you a concrete example, but, that would most certainly shed a light on my crafty designs!

I like trying to guess where people have taken their hike photos....

Did I say I am "giving"? This is something at my core, better say it again.... and again. :-) I am completely baffled by my "personality profile" stating I may be "less compassionate". Not sure where the wires got crossed, but, I can tell you.... it's inaccurate! I think my number of answered questions has caused the OKC "Trait Bot" to malfunction!

I feel integrity is doing the right thing when nobody else will ever know you did. It's a matter of personal honor. This is important to me.

I like to dress well, just for the heck of it, especially when it's not required.

I consider having a child the most serious responsibility one ever takes on and a lifelong commitment; to this end, I have waited a good deal of time to be certain I'd like one (for now, one, after that who knows?). Yet... true love, reigns supreme over this commitment. True Love first, then, what naturally follows.

Mitch Hedberg was (and still is) too funny: "You know, I'm sick of following my dreams, man. I'm just going to ask where they're going and hook up with 'em later."

Don't be misled, I aspire to be "mostly vegetarian", yet I cannot give up sushi, and I do every now and then enjoy a fine filet mignon, but that happens less these days.

With the right one... it's not the activity that creates fun, it's WHO you're with that makes all the difference.

I am ALWAYS up for a good adventure... Let's go!

I like watching movies with "presence" late at night in the hopes of having a related dream. Think how Blade Runner "feels"....

Based on what I've read in women's profiles (and their complaints), guys post photos of their abs about as often as women say, "I'm equally comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt, as well as dressing up nice." That phrase is so cliché.

I've been told I sometimes engender an old school gentleman. I'd like to think so, I aspire to be and continue that rarified art. I like old things, old radios, old cars, Fred Astaire, Jimmy Durante, you know, or, if you don't know, then you know....

I am not typically attracted to axe murderers, however, if you think we match, I might make an exception for you...

What am I looking for? Simply Put - Kindness, Giving Nature, Passion and Intensity. Get it?

Above all, though, please be yourself. :-) Are you TRULY ready?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Endeavoring to live in the "Now" and truly enjoy each moment life has to offer! (easier said than done!) Though, as a job, I work in feature film and television post production as a visual effects editor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Encouraging others.
2. Learning new things.
3. Asking questions to get to the heart of the matter.
4. Not giving up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Intensity/Energy contrasted with my quiet side.
My Intricacy and Curiosity.
My giving nature.
I pay attention to small details.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh, The Places You'll Go!
The Giving Tree. ( I am the tree)
The Power of Now
Pathways to Bliss - by Joseph Campbell. blends myth with our own life journey.
The China Study
The Count of Monte Cristo

Here is a bed time story, just for YOU, to see if you are paying attention: Iroquois Fable

This is truly funny!

Woman Confusingly Tells Area Man She’s Not Interested In Him

People Admired - Living and Expired
Cindi - my Neighbor, who despite having serious health issues her entire life, somehow always finds the silver lining.
David Blaine
Sandro Botticelli
Irina Dvorovenko
Howard Hughes
Kelly Johnson (engineer not athlete)
Grace Kelly
Elon Musk
Frederick W. Smith
Alberto Vargas

Avatar (in 3d),
Back to the Future Trilogy
Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead.
Food, Inc. (good to know!),
Ferris Bueller's Day Off,
Forrest Gump,
Gone with the Wind,
Gravity - Best 3d movie - ever.,
Hungry for Change,
It Happened One Night,
Idiocracy (it's got electrolytes),
The Illusionist,
many Kurosawa,
Lawrence of Arabia,
Lord of the Rings,
Moonrise Kingdom,
The Notebook,
Pay it Forward,
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Ruby Sparks,
Say Anything,
Scott Pilgrim versus the World',
The Seven Year Itch,
Silence of the Lambs,
Singing in the Rain - ..."Moses supposes his toes are roses..."
What Dreams May Come
Wizard of Oz (amazing in it's 75th anniversary 3d conversion!)
Zeitgeist (section on Religion and Money, not 911),

and many, many more (it's my business!) I seriously LOVE movies.

I admire Clarke Gable. He was "the man"! I knew someone who worked with him and said he was the consummate gentleman.

White Collar
Game of Thrones,
Arrested Development,
House of Cards,
Seinfeld re-runs,
House M.D.
Cosmos - old and new,
The Power of Myth

Music? Over 100K songs in my itunes. I like music, though I am not a fanatic...I've just collected a lot. I've noticed quite recently, the size of my library makes for some VERY cool Genius mixes, which I had never used....

Benny Goodman,
Bryan Adams,
C+C Music Factory......oh yeah!!
Chris Isaak,
Daft Punk,
David Guetta,
Don 2 soundtrack (I know, I know, pathetic... I just love it, it's fun)
The Doors,
Elvis Costello,
Ella Fitgerald,
Five for Fighting,
Frank Sinatra,
Fred Astaire,
Gavin DeGraw,
Gwen Stefani,
Glenn Miller,
Imagine Dragons,
Jimmy Durante,
Plain White T's - Rhythm of Love
Sheryl Crow,
Simon and Garfunkel,
Taio Cruz,
W. Amadeus Mozart.
80's pop (in case you didn't notice)

I"m getting closer and closer to vegan, though not as a religion, more as a fact to avoid Westernized diseases.... but I will still eat meat, in limited quantities.

Healthy food in general,
Cold Junmai Sake,
Powerthirst Rocket Edition Manana

SMALL WORLD - how small the earth is.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Reciprocated Love
2. Discovery - Creativity
3. Humor
4. Acknowledgement
5. Communication
6. Giving Nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
•Is anybody really what they appear to be on a dating site?
•I'd love to be a money counterfeiter, but the idea of being stuck in prison is an adequate deterrent.
•How to build a time machine.... I'm thinking Tesla was on the right track...more on that later....
•What I can do for the woman I am seeing, to surprise her.
•How do you identify pure kindness early on?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working late, having a fine dinner, then going out or home for a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My life is mostly an open book, I find it hard to craft a shocking answer.....something like, "I am not real, I'm actually a complex Avatar that only exists on the internet." If only....

I'd like to learn how to Swing Dance.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Though I think I know what I am looking for, I am always ready to be completely caught off guard! Yet, here's what, based on my past experiences, I've learned I value a great deal...

1. You are compassionate and a GIVER by nature. You're the kind of person who would text me, "good morning!" just because you're thinking of me and because I'll be doing the same.

2. You love yourself and it shows that you take care of your body, mind, and spirit. In other words, you are FIT and healthy, and that's a priority to you and always will be. If you dare to list yourself as "Fit" or "Athletic" be prepared to be taken to task on that. I take those designations quite don't kid yourself...

3. You are confident with yourself and what you do, you're bright, and can push me, intellectually, so that I can learn things I never knew I didn't know! Know SOME-thing!! If we can't keep a conversation on a variety of topics on a road trip, then, that's a sign.

4. You care about the world around you, and choose to make it better, rather than embrace cynicism.

5. You are Loyal/Committed (Not "committed" in the Institutional sense) and are looking to forge a real BOND with someone, where our lives blend.

6. You truly appreciate quiet time together, but also enjoy getting out now and then.

7. You're an honest, open communicator, and can share your mind and past freely.

8. You have a generally positive, disposition. (boughs of cynicism, are, of course, normal, accepted, and encouraged to vent).

9. You're looking to the future and thinking ahead.

10. You might consider, after our whirlwind romance, teaming up to have a tall, well educated, athletic kid who has a good chance of getting ahead! And you're kinda tall yourself, hopefully, maybe...?

Finally, more than ANY OTHER DETAIL: BE READY.


(cigarette) SMOKERS need not apply. I consider the number of cigarettes you smoke inversely related to your intelligence.