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45 M Topanga, CA

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  • Ages 29–39
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  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:08am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I had a dog, his name was Caesar Augustus, he was a Rhodesian Ridgeback… he was my very best friend.

"The Caesar-dog" as I liked to call him, taught me many things:

•how to live in the Now and really feel it's Power,
•how to be a really good listener,
•knowing what it feels like to have someone always excited to see me,
•always run around with reckless abandonment when joy fills your heart,
•protect the ones you love from perceived threats,
•how to use your limbs to take up the maximum sleeping space,
•snuggle closer and spoon for maximum warmth while camping in a below freezing tent,
•relax in the sun on days that beckon to you to be lazy,
•always beware of stairs, they can be tricky,
•bark at others only when absolutely necessary,
•a laser dot defies all movement of chase-able creatures in the natural world,
•a down pillow is filled with feathers, A LOT of them, and if you pop one open for fun, it resembles fallen snow…. but inside the house instead of outside,
•at first a bath is not that great, but, then, afterwards, you feel so clean, you just want to sprint around the house in lickety-split cleanliness, and shake your booty like the wings of a hummingbird,
•deer are fast, but not as fast as Rhodesian hound dogs,
•a lure course bunny is so fast, it takes your breath away, and it keeps going and going and going,
•the best way to scratch your back is simply to roll around on it,
•lick your plate clean when you really love what you just ate, maybe you'll get more,
•hiking can be really hard on your paws, best to wear some booties,
•if you want to keep your feet dry, simply dance around puddles,
•wipe your feet when you enter the house, especially if you aren't wearing shoes,
•sometimes, if you eat something too fast, it may come back up, but never to worry, it tastes just as good going down the second time,
•the thought of nail trimming can lead to a quivering lip, and the display of the canine-tooth, aptly name,
•cheese may just be the best treat ever,
•always protect an innocent infant, even if it's your sworn mortal enemy, the kitten,
•there's always more love you can find inside yourself to give,
•how to win people over to your side, and show them, they simply must love you, because you are you,
•humans are pretty terrific,

and finally, the most difficult thing he taught me, the hardest lesson of all, was, how to deal with the loss of someone you love, and what a broken heart really feels like.

So, I think in this relationship with The Caesar Dog, I got far more out of it than he ever did, heck, I only taught him a few things, but, he seemed to be really happy with the arrangement.

I try never to forget the simple things Caesar Augustus taught me. Sometimes, the very best things you need to know about life and humans can be taught to you by a dog that could only say, "I love you." (Yes, really, he could, that's one of the things I taught him).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying the rewards of the success I have thus far from working hard.
Appreciating the people I work with and the wonderful family and friends I have.
Remembering to appreciate what things I am so lucky to have instead of what I want.
I work as a Visual Effects Editor in TV and Film.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Encouraging others.
2. Learning new things.
3. Asking questions to get to the heart of the matter.
4. Not giving up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My goat hooves and barbed tail.
My Intensity/Energy contrasted with my quiet side.
My Intricacy and Curiosity.
My giving nature.
I pay attention to small details.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh, The Places You'll Go!
The Giving Tree. ( I am the tree)
The Power of Now
Pathways to Bliss - by Joseph Campbell. blends myth with our own life journey.
The China Study
The Count of Monte Cristo

Here is a bed time story, just for YOU, to see if you are paying attention: Iroquois Fable

This is truly funny!

Woman Confusingly Tells Area Man She’s Not Interested In Him

People Admired - Living and Expired
Cindi - my Neighbor, who despite having serious health issues her entire life, somehow always finds the silver lining.
David Blaine
Sandro Botticelli
Irina Dvorovenko
Howard Hughes
Kelly Johnson (engineer not athlete)
Grace Kelly
Elon Musk
Frederick W. Smith
Alberto Vargas

Avatar (in 3d),
Back to the Future Trilogy
Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead.
Food, Inc. (good to know!),
Ferris Bueller's Day Off,
Forrest Gump,
Gone with the Wind,
Gravity - Best 3d movie - ever.,
Hungry for Change,
It Happened One Night,
Idiocracy (it's got electrolytes),
The Illusionist,
many Kurosawa,
Lawrence of Arabia,
Lord of the Rings,
Moonrise Kingdom,
The Notebook,
Pay it Forward,
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Ruby Sparks,
Say Anything,
Scott Pilgrim versus the World',
The Seven Year Itch,
Silence of the Lambs,
Singing in the Rain - ..."Moses supposes his toes are roses..."
Sleepless in Seattle,
What Dreams May Come
Wizard of Oz (amazing in it's 75th anniversary 3d conversion!)
You've Got Mail,
Zeitgeist (section on Religion and Money, not 911),

and many, many more (it's my business!) I seriously LOVE movies.

I admire Clarke Gable. He was "the man"! I knew someone who worked with him and said he was the consummate gentleman.

White Collar
Game of Thrones,
Arrested Development,
House of Cards,
Seinfeld re-runs,
House M.D.
Cosmos - old and new,
The Power of Myth

Music? Over 100K songs in my itunes. I like music, though I am not a fanatic...I've just collected a lot. I've noticed quite recently, the size of my library makes for some VERY cool Genius mixes, which I had never used....

Benny Goodman,
Bryan Adams,
C+C Music Factory......oh yeah!!
Chris Isaak,
Daft Punk,
David Guetta,
Don 2 soundtrack (I know, I know, pathetic... I just love it, it's fun)
The Doors,
Elvis Costello,
Ella Fitgerald,
Five for Fighting,
Frank Sinatra,
Fred Astaire,
Gavin DeGraw,
Gwen Stefani,
Glenn Miller,
Imagine Dragons,
Jimmy Durante,
Plain White T's - Rhythm of Love
Sheryl Crow,
Simon and Garfunkel,
Taio Cruz,
W. Amadeus Mozart.
80's pop (in case you didn't notice)

I"m getting closer and closer to vegan, though not as a religion, more as a fact to avoid Westernized diseases.... but I will still eat meat, in limited quantities.

Healthy food in general,
Cold Junmai Sake,
Powerthirst Rocket Edition Manana

SMALL WORLD - how small the earth is.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(In a relationship)

1. Reciprocated Love
2. Imagination
3. Humor
4. Acknowledgement
5. Communication
6. Giving Nature/Kindness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
•I'd love to be a money counterfeiter, but the idea of being stuck in prison is an adequate deterrent.
•How to build a time machine.... I'm thinking Tesla was on the right track...more on that later....
•Does the mythical Unicorn exist? (unicorn is a metaphor here, just in case you were wondering)

Or some random thoughts...

•I think the purpose of Starbuck's is to make people feel excited and empowered that they have the ability to make a decision.
•Some day I want to learn how to keep an Orchid alive, because, wow, are they pretty!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If not out to dinner, I'm pursuing one of my hobbies:

1. Working on my classic car
2. Woodworking
3. Reading literature to educate myself
4. Improving my photography skills.
5. Listening to my vintage radio (1939), with 30-40's music playing.

--- the list continues, the first five here are "for examples"---
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't dance, but, I'd really like to learn how to Swing Dance. However, "You can dance if you want to...."
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Though I think I know what I am looking for, I am always ready to be completely caught off guard! Yet, here's what, based on my past experiences, I've learned I value a great deal...

1. You are compassionate and a GIVER by nature. You're the kind of person who would text me, "good morning!" just because you're thinking of me and because I'll be doing the same.

2. You love yourself and it shows that you take care of your body, mind, and spirit. In other words, you are FIT and healthy, and that's a priority to you and always will be. If you dare to list yourself as "Fit" or "Athletic" be prepared to be taken to task on that. I take those designations quite don't kid yourself...

3. You are confident with yourself and what you do, you're bright/highly intelligent, and can push me, intellectually, so that I can learn things I never knew I didn't know! Know SOME-thing!! If we can't keep a conversation on a variety of topics on a road trip, then, that's a sign.

4. You can look around your place and say, "well it isn't perfect, but, I'm definitely not a slob... I've seen an episode of Hoarders."

5. You are Loyal/Committed (Not "committed" in the Institutional sense) and are looking to forge a real BOND with someone, where our lives blend.

6. You truly appreciate quiet time together, but also enjoy getting out now and then.

7. You're an honest, open communicator, and can share your mind and past freely.

8. You have a generally positive, disposition. (boughs of cynicism, are, of course, normal, accepted, and encouraged to vent).

9. You're looking to the future and thinking ahead.

10. You might consider, after our whirlwind romance, teaming up to have a tall, well educated, athletic kid who has a good chance of getting ahead! And you're kinda tall yourself, hopefully, maybe...?

Finally, more than ANY OTHER DETAIL: BE READY.


(cigarette) SMOKERS need not apply. I consider the number of cigarettes you smoke inversely related to your intelligence.