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34 M Topanga, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
First off. Thank you. Thanks for checking out my profile.

I am 44 years old. The majority of my friends (advisors) have suggested I place my age at 34 to show up in "your" search. So, I am doing this, but I am mildly troubled by it. I am not a liar, yet, the woman I seek is likely in her early to late thirties (you'll understand why this is when we meet), though there are always exceptions. Now that we have that out of the way.

Rest assured, I haven't posted any "selfies" or photos of my abdominals.

My goal here is to actually tell you something mildly more insightful than "likes long walks along the beach..."

I'm quite comfortable and happy with my life. Put simply, I have what I need and nearly all of what I want. Life is fantastic! Meeting Ms. Right would most assuredly enhance it! Ergo...

I am a California native, intricate, sincere, loyal, honest, spontaneous, quit-witted, happy, active, ex-athlete, "enjoy my job", silly now and then, earnest, extremely-curious, funny, "well edumacated", quirky, intense, sentimental, eternally romantic, like giving more than receiving, but, all-in-all a decent, kind hearted, guy! I consider manners a lost art and believe special moments can be planned, if enough thought is put into them. I'd give you a concrete example, but, that would spoil the fun!

Did I say I am "giving"? This is something at my core, better say it again. :-)

I feel integrity is doing the right thing when nobody else will ever know you did. It's a matter of personal honor. This is important to me.

I like to dress well, especially when it's not required.

Mitch Hedberg was (and still is) too funny: "You know, I'm sick of following my dreams, man. I'm just going to ask where they're going and hook up with 'em later."

Don't be misled, I aspire to be "mostly vegetarian", yet I cannot give up sushi, and I do every now and then enjoy a fine filet mignon, but that happens less these days.

With the right one... it's not the activity that creates fun, it's WHO you're with that makes all the difference.

I am ALWAYS up for a good adventure... Let's go!

Based on what I've read in women's profiles (and their complaints), guys post photos of their abs about as often as women say, "I'm equally comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt, as well as dressing up nice." That phrase is so cliché.

I've been told I'm a rare, old school gentleman. I'd like to think so, I aspire to be and continue that rarified art. I like old things, old radios, old cars, Fred Astaire, Jimmy Durante, you know, or, if you don't know, then you know....

I am not typically attracted to axe murderers, however, if you think we match, I might make an exception for you...

What am I looking for? Simply Put - Kindness, Giving Nature, Passion and Intensity. Giving Nature. Giving Nature. Get it?

Above all, though, please be yourself. :-) Are you TRULY ready?
What I’m doing with my life
Endeavoring to live in the "Now" and truly enjoy each moment life has to offer! (easier said than done!) Though, as a job, I typically work in feature film post production.
I’m really good at
1. Encouraging others.
2. Learning new things.
3. Asking questions to get to the heart of the matter.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Intensity/Energy contrasted with my quiet side.
My Intricacy and Curiosity.
My giving nature.
I pay attention to small details.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh, The Places You'll Go!
The Giving Tree. ( I am the tree)
The Power of Now
Pathways to Bliss - by Joseph Campbell. blends myth with our own life journey.
The China Study
The Count of Monte Cristo

Here is a bed time story, just for YOU, to see if you are paying attention: Iroquois Fable

This is truly funny!

Woman Confusingly Tells Area Man She’s Not Interested In Him

People Admired - Living and Expired
Cindi - my Neighbor, who despite having serious health issues her entire life, somehow always finds the silver lining.
David Blaine
Sandro Botticelli
Elon Musk
Anthony Robbins
Alberto Vargas
Oprah Winfrey

Singing in the Rain - ..."Moses supposes his toes are roses..."
Lawrence of Arabia,
Ruby Sparks,
Wizard of Oz (amazing in it's 75th anniversary 3d conversion!)
The Illusionist,
Gravity - Best 3d movie - ever.,
Gone with the Wind,
Raiders of the Lost Ark,
Avatar (in 3d),
Pay it Forward,
The Notebook,
Back to the Future Trilogy
Silence of the Lambs,
many Kurosawa,
The Seven Year Itch,
Forrest Gump,
Ferris Bueller's Day Off,
Lord of the Rings,
It Happened One Night,
Say Anything,
Food, Inc. (good to know!)
Idiocracy (it's got electrolytes),
Zeitgeist (section on Religion and Money, not 911),
Hungry for Change,
Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead.
and many, many more (it's my business!) I seriously LOVE movies.

I admire Clarke Gable. He was "the man"! I knew someone who worked with him and said he was the consummate gentleman.

White Collar (This is CLEARLY my favorite show)
Game of Thrones,
Arrested Development,
House of Cards,
Seinfeld re-runs,
The Power of Myth,

Music? Over 100K songs in my itunes. I like music, though I am not a fanatic...I've just collected a lot. I've noticed quite recently, the size of my library makes for some VERY cool Genius mixes, which I had never used....

Benny Goodman,
Bryan Adams,
C+C Music Factory......oh yeah!!
Chris Isaak,
Daft Punk,
David Guetta,
Don 2 soundtrack (I know, I know, pathetic... I just love it, it's fun)
Elvis Costello,
Ella Fitgerald,
Five for Fighting,
Frank Sinatra,
Fred Astaire,
Gavin DeGraw,
Gwen Stefani,
Glenn Miller,
Imagine Dragons,
Jimmy Durante,
Plain White T's - Rhythm of Love
Sheryl Crow,
Simon and Garfunkel,
Taio Cruz,
W. Amadeus Mozart.
80's pop (in case you didn't notice)

I"m getting closer and closer to vegan, though not as a religion, more as a fact to avoid Westernized diseases.... but I will still eat meat, in limited quantities.

Healthy food in general,
Cold Junmai Sake,
Powerthirst Rocket Edition Manana

SMALL WORLD - how small the earth is.
The six things I could never do without
1. Recipricated Love
2. Discovery - Creativity
3. Humor
4. Acknowledgement
5. Communication
6. Giving Nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
•Is anybody really what they appear to be on a dating site?
•I'd love to be a money counterfeiter, but the idea of being stuck in prison is an adequate deterrent.
•How to build a time machine.... I'm thinking Tesla was on the right track...more on that later....
•The potential of Activated Stabilized Oxygen and my ATP.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working late, having a fine dinner, then going out or home for a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My life is mostly an open book, I find it hard to craft a shocking answer.....something like, "I am not real, I'm actually a complex Avatar that only exists on the internet." If only....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Though I think I know what I am looking for, I am always ready to be completely caught off guard! Yet, here's what, based on my past experiences, I've learned I value a great deal...

1. You want to have a tall, well educated, athletic kid who has a good chance of getting ahead! And you're kinda tall yourself...?

2. You are compassionate/giving by nature.

3. You love yourself and it shows that you take care of your body, mind, and spirit. In other words, you are FIT and healthy, and that's a priority to you and always will be. If you dare to list yourself as "Fit" or "Athletic" be prepared to be taken to task on that. I take those designations quite don't kid yourself...

4. You are confident with yourself and what you do, you're bright, and can push me, intellectually, so that I can learn things I never knew I didn't know!

5. You care about the world around you, and choose to make it better, rather than embrace cynicism.

6. You are Loyal/Committed. (Not "committed" in the Institutional sense)

7. You truly appreciate quiet time together.

8. You're an honest, open communicator, and can share your mind and past freely.

9. You have a generally positive, disposition. (boughs of cynicism, are, of course, normal).

10. You're looking to the future and thinking ahead.

Finally, more than ANY OTHER DETAIL: BE READY.


SMOKERS need not apply. I consider the number of cigarettes you smoke inversely related to your intelligence.