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31 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Looking for a bestfriend and lover. I'm non-traditional, and positive.

I'm not searching for love, just good people to love. Looking for fun friends? That's cool too!

Want to know what I'm all about? This is a link to my facebook word cloud. I'm really interested in what impression people get from it! So let me know!

Facts and statements:

I have a good job, I rock at it.

I'm a strange intersection of cis male, metro style, feminist, queer loving, and all the gender roles. People close to me might say I'm hetro, but non-normative.

I like to debate gender issues. What parts of gender are social constructs, ect..

I eat healthy and active.

I love people, conversation, and food. I'm sure we're best friends already.

I don't own a car, I don't need or want one. I walk everywhere and like a good hobbit I rarely leave the Shire.

I don't have cable. I don't need or want it. In fact I've been on a mission to remove the things I don't need/want, and bring closer the thing I do.

I like to make my cake and eat it.

I use words like totes and adorbs.

I <3 Gwen Iffle. #nerdcrush

Dear OkCupid,
Take a hint.

Love me.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a software developer at ${Big online retailer}. I love my work.

Baking, cooking, entertaining.

Meeting rad people, making friends one baked good at a time. Note adorable ladies: I will try to buy your love with baked goods. You've been put on notice.

Trying to get my cats to love me. They where semi-feral street kittens when I rescued them in Phoenix. My cat are more like stoner roommates, I do my thing, they do their's, sometimes we hangout and play Mario Kart.
I’m really good at
Connecting, growing, and loving people. (My main passion)

Software Engineering. (My boss thinks so)

Using my words.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am very Bear-y. There will be comments made on how I can get free drinks at pony.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't watch much TV. I really like Julia Childs.

I ready crappy fantasy fiction. It's likes candy. I know it's bad, but it tastes so good. Sometimes I read good books, but its not often.

My friend wrote a book, which I plan on reading asap. Like her music it might make you cry.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
People, Work, Projects.
On a typical Friday night I am
Happy hour with friends, eating drinking and general merry making.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't want to have teh sexys with you! I have a nice lady who does a very good job there. Sex is not off the table, but I'm here to make connections and meet rad people. It's really the meaning-less hookup sex that I'd like to avoid. I want to know the person I'm playing with, makes my life easier.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
I'm in an open, poly, loving relationship. We have clear boundaries, and rules. Ask if you need more information. I have many friends that I love and care for. Its what I do. I collect and grow people around me with the intent of keeping them in my life.

If you'd like to know the finer points of raising chickens, and why you should never get ducks.

If you wake up in the morning and life is delicious.

If you're looking for a dinner friend, dance partner, ect. If that's something you interested in shoot me a message!

I'm looking for connections. I like to know who I'm playing with, its better that way.

Know yourself, but always have the room to learn more.