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51 Latham, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 31–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends

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Last online
Today – 5:31am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Still looking for my constant...

A lot of people say that writing a profile is hard work. I love it. It's a great chance to be introspective, and hey, if you see stuff you don't like then change things up, after all, it's your life, own it! With that said I will try to describe myself a little bit. I am pretty hard working, mostly dependable, generally trustworthy, basically healthy, fairly mentally stable, and semi active. I’m typically laid back, usually open minded to trying new things, have passable manners, and I clean up acceptably well.

I like to be outside and active, but I have to admit I find myself kicking my own butt off the couch frequently. I did finally get that kayak I have been saying I was going to get. Used it a few times last summer, loved it, and can’t wait till next summer to get back out there. But while I’m waiting I think I will do some winter hiking, maybe even camp out a night or two, polar plunge the new year in, plan a trip to Peru in May and try to organize another big adventure for the end of summer. Do you like to travel or have a small adventurous streak in you? Maybe you have a big adventurous streak and need a tag along? Traveling is always more fun with two, right? I do see more adventure type traveling in my future just to be upfront about that, and I don’t mind sleeping in hostels, tents or on the ground.

I've held my current job for 18 years and if it dried up tomorrow for some reason I would go out and get a new one. Have a good dependable car and a beat up rusted out old truck. Man I like that truck! I have all my hair but it's mostly grey these days and I usually keep it REALLY short.

As far as relationships. I think I am a good catch and when I'm in I'm in with both feet and not afraid to work on things. Nuff said.

Want to know anything else? Just ask!
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to have fun along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting along with people and going with the flow. Small things don't bother me. Coming up with odd ways to accomplish tasks and getting a little smug when they work. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like Game of Thrones and Supernatural. Not really following any other shows at the moment. I tend to like most types of music except Rap and Hip Hop. Action/Adventure and Fantasy are the types of movies and books that I prefer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Well the first one was easy. I'll get back to you on the other five.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking is SO overrated! Lets just DO something together!

Also, did you ever notice when your driving like 65 down the highway, every now and then you come across a set of dark skid marks that go all over the road and then they just end. I really want to know what happened! Is everybody ok! I need to know!!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I swig from the milk carton.