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l0st81

34 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 10
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Asian, Other
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*waving goodbye*

As I follow my career to a new city for the next few years I wish the OkCupid Bay dating community farewell and hope that you awesome folk find fun and happiness here. I've had so much fun with the down to earth/real people here that I'm afraid to leave. I've kept my friends, family, and especially myself entertained with assorted romance stories born from an online message. So don't give up hope, there are truly awesome people hanging out in the Bay.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moving to North County to work for underserved populations in SoCal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people feel better after they talk to me (it's my super power)
making people think
being a mensch
actively listening
parking, driving in reverse
dancing while tipsy
dancing while not tipsy
honesty (OKC blog tells me I should claim I'm 6' tall)
taking photos of other people
meia lua

I'm bad at:
Taking selfies
any sport/activity related to the cold
choosing the right direction to go if there is a 50/50 chance of getting it right
finding my keys when they are sitting in front of me
backflips
staying quiet when something is amiss
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My thick collection of silky black hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These books changed how I see the world: Born to Run; Malcolm X autobio; Artist's Way; Zhuangzi Speaks: The Music Of Nature; finally, the most important book you will ever read, I'm saying this as a health educator.

Comics for fun: American Born Chinese, X-men, Same Difference, Deathnote, Onepiece, Monster, Ranma 1/2.

TV (aka internet): Daily Show, Futurama, The Wire, Ted Talks.

Movies: Usual Suspects, Godzilla (Sweaty man in a musty costume versions), Kung Fu Hustle, Enter the Dragon, Ruthless People, Amelie, Wall-E, City of God, Spongebob Squarepants the Movie.

Music: MJ, Black Eyed Peas, Incubus, Gorillaz, Tribe Called Quest, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Adele...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a beat
corrective lenses
silly optimism
comfy shoes
chopsticks
overactive imagination
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Many a false step is made standing still." - fortune cookie.

"What is the sound of one hand clapping?" - Lisa
*clap, clap, clap* - Bart's hand.

"Never let a good crisis go to waste" - Churchill
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy hour with coworkers, writing, reading, dancing, or exercising. Sometimes doing all in one night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think my nephew is cuter than all of the babies I've come across, and I feel guilty for feeling that way since I'm a FNP.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I’m on OKC to meet awesome people who inspire me. I’m not looking for anybody to fix my life, I believe in taking care of that on my own. I can get along with anybody, but I enjoy myself most with people who laugh hard and feel passionate about something that they do in life. I click naturally with someone who can hold both intelligent and silly conversations. I love spontaneity and enjoy quirky characters.