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33 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:11pm
Asian, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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Skip ahead of the queue: if you like to go out dancing I'm looking for a dance partner.

Instead of writing about things I may have in common with others like the dating sites tell me I should, I'm going to summarize how weird I am.

I am an activist baby by birth. My parents fell in love amidst tear gas and police batons on the UCB campus while occupying buildings. I spent my childhood at protests and marches, boycotting grapes to support farm workers, advocating for sweat shop workers, and assuming that everyone was fighting to end apartheid. I enjoyed aunts and uncles of every race and sexual orientation, and I was surrounded by people who questioned authority as easily as fish swim.

I am a laid back student of Chinese philosophy, ardent feminist thanks to my sister and mother, and am honest even when I know it can only spell disaster. There's plenty more, but let's leave something to conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on becoming a boring person so I can embrace my inner jack of all trades. Watching way too many Ted talks.

Undergoing a difficult detox.

Current priorities in my life:

Put the phone away.
Laugh with my nephew.
Trick my parents into living longer and healthier.
Sit beside a friend when words won't help.
Conversate en Espanol, por favor.
Create new dance moves.
Looking my patients in the eye.
Learn how to swallow a green smoothie.
Break a sweat daily.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people feel better after they talk to me (it's my super power)
making people think
being a mensch
actively listening
parking, driving in reverse
dancing while tipsy
dancing while not tipsy
honesty (OKC blog tells me I should claim I'm 6' tall)
taking photos of other people
meia lua

I'm bad at:
Taking selfies
any sport/activity related to the cold
choosing the right direction to go if there is a 50/50 chance of getting it right
finding my keys when they are sitting in front of me
staying quiet when something is amiss
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My thick collection of silky black hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These books changed how I see the world: Born to Run; Malcolm X autobio; Artist's Way; Zhuangzi Speaks: The Music Of Nature; finally, the most important book you will ever read, I'm saying this as a health educator.

Comics for fun: American Born Chinese, X-men, Same Difference, Deathnote, Onepiece, Monster, Ranma 1/2.

TV (aka internet): Daily Show, Futurama, The Wire, Ted Talks.

Movies: Usual Suspects, Godzilla (Sweaty man in a musty costume versions), Kung Fu Hustle, Enter the Dragon, Ruthless People, Amelie, Wall-E, City of God, Spongebob Squarepants the Movie.

Music: MJ, Black Eyed Peas, Incubus, Gorillaz, Tribe Called Quest, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Adele...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a beat
corrective lenses
silly optimism
comfy shoes
overactive imagination
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Many a false step is made standing still." - fortune cookie.

"What is the sound of one hand clapping?" - Lisa
*clap, clap, clap* - Bart's hand.

"Never let a good crisis go to waste" - Churchill
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy hour with coworkers, writing, reading, dancing, or exercising. Sometimes doing all in one night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think my nephew is cuter than all of the babies I've come across, and I feel guilty for feeling that way since I'm a FNP.
You should message me if
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I’m on OKC to meet awesome people who inspire me. I’m not looking for anybody to fix my life, I believe in taking care of that on my own. I can get along with anybody, but I enjoy myself most with people who laugh hard and feel passionate about something that they do in life. I click naturally with someone who can hold both intelligent and silly conversations. I love spontaneity and enjoy quirky characters.