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la_duchessa

31 F Tallahassee, FL

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly), French (Poorly), Hebrew (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've been described as a combination of Morticia Addams and Marilyn Monroe.

My partner and I are polyamorous/monogamish.
People ask: "How does that work?" I think they mean, "Is there any possibility that we can have sex, or am I barking up the wrong duchess?" I usually miss the point and respond that it's like any other relationship, but more so.

But the bottom line is that I'm free to see other people at my discretion, and I'm free for that to go in any direction that is natural. Kyle comes first in my life, but that's not so much a rule as a general and unchangeable condition. I promise you he's not jealous. But if you have more questions, feel free to ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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Pursuing a master's degree in foreign language education, studying Italian, and nerding out over opera. Learning to tango.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning languages, cooking, writing, dancing, and all things domestic.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have the most gorgeous tattoo in the world. Or, at least, I think so.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite author is Bill Bryson. I read a lot of nonfiction, mostly social history and ethnography. I also love classics, and am a big fan of Dickens.

I love old movies, and I'm a huge fan of Fred Astaire. I don't own a TV, but I love watching Mst3k, Buffy the Vampire Slayer and the like on my laptop.

My favorite food in the entire world is shrimp fried rice, but I love to cook and eat a variety of things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
it was: Tea, books, incense, my sister, something to write with, and opera, when I was single.

But then my guy and I ran out of incense for a while. It turns out that I can live without my gonesh sticks, but I simply cannot live without theamazingkyle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Teaching, word origins, opera, tango, and men.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting on the floor with some project or other spread out and trying to keep the cats from walking on whatever it is I'm working on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"A lady who would tell you her age would tell you anything" -- Oscar Wilde

I think John Oliver, of Daily Show fame, is the hottest thing to walk the earth.

I deadlift 135 lbs. Okay, so that's not private, but I do like to brag.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You hate Game of Thrones. Or if you resemble John Oliver. If you'd like to do ANYTHING but cuddle and watch netflix on a date.