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31 Santa Cruz, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last Online
Online now!
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Independent, intelligent, a leader. Weird. Often called hilarious. Tough exterior with a soft heart. Loyal to the end. Honest and realistic. Career-oriented, looking forward to climbing ranks. Nature lover, history buff, antiquer, thrifter. Interested in almost anything, willing to try almost anything.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in government as a civil service employee. Ask me where if you'd like to know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing, coming up with treasures in a thrift store full of seeming trash, enjoying the little things, self-reflection, and being creative/ finding creative pathways.
The first things people usually notice about me
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It would have to be my eyes and hair. And that I talk a lot and have a fairly loud voice, and the big personality that matches the voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am an avid reader. I have authors I fall back on time and time again, like F. Scott Fitzgerald, Truman Capote, Sherman Alexie; but am always looking for new novels to read. I have a Kindle and it's great- another place to find books for free and great for super bulky tomes and magazines. With it when I travel I always have something to read. I also read lots of cookbooks and vintage women's manuals for inspiration. I really enjoy novels that were scandals in their day (Peyton Place, The Tenant of Wildfell Hall) and really do like Victorian novels, especially by female authors. I've also resolved to read more classic science fiction and fantasy. Give me suggestions!

I haven't seen many recent movies. I'm a big bad movie, old movie, and B movie fan, and I own a lot of DVDs of cult classics and old movie collections. I'm always a fan of horror, suspense and quasi-horror, plus, anything with Bruce Campbell in it. I also like foreign movies and Bollywood. I have really been into Netflix and Amazon Prime lately. Hello, BBC costume dramas!

I totally own a TV now, but no cable service, thanks to Chromecast. I recently got into Game of Thrones (no spoilers!) and watch a myriad of shows available on Netflix and Amazon Prime. Of course that includes Arrested Development, although I haven't gotten into Orange is the New Black yet (waiting for the right mood).

I listen to literally everything. I own a record player and have what I consider to be a great record collection, and am always out on the town looking for additions. Recent additions include: Lost Legends of Surf Guitar, Polynesian Percussion, Flatt and Scruggs: The Original Sound, The Shangri-Las, The Police: Zenyatta Mondatta. Some artists I love: Elvis Presley, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Queens of the Stone Age and anything Joshua Homme does, The Beach Boys, Dolly Parton, Johnny Cash.

As for food- I will try anything. I love to cook- give me recipes! I'm a pretty dang good cook too. I really am a fan of most types of cuisine, and will go out of my way to try new things. Although I don't like olives. I just don't!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A book, a bed, an imagination, music, conversation, dreams.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work, for one. Or important topics to myself, like, starting my own theatre company. Or, for example, how to inspire people to get rid of their cars and start using public transit. I don't have a car myself! I've also been very interested in urban homesteading for a while now, so I've been thinking about things like cheese and beermaking, keeping bees and chickens, and of course, my garden.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be enjoying a cozy night in, or maybe a fun night out. Or just taking a walk down to the beach and enjoying this beautiful place.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I talk to myself. It helps me think. I know it sounds weird, but it really does. I have so many thoughts running around in my mind at all times, so speaking the words helps me to focus on them.
You should message me if
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You want to actually get to know me, talk a bit. If you're looking for a thrifting or hiking buddy, or a friend to talk about cooking and canning with. Fair warning: I am not interested in those who will flake out on me after one hang out or date. Actually interested men need only apply.

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