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31 M Bellingham, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:57am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am constantly on the lookout for interesting, optimistic people. My greatest passion is in learning and understanding how everything works together. My ideal day involves cooking a kick ass breakfast, a good hard hike or great outdoor adventure followed by a nap on a sunny rock, and ends with a few drinks with friends and cuddling with my dog. If it's a day I have my son with me, even better.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm on a quest to obtain life long habits and hobbies. I've spent a good deal of time investing in my career, family, and other things and never really took the time to find out what I like now that I'm somewhat of a grown up.

I dare say I may be in a selfish phase at the moment. It's not that I'm a selfish person, I'm just determined to find out what it is that makes me happy. The choice between drama and finding what I want is already decided and I'm hoping to meet someone that just clicks on a personal level without a ton of work, stress, or struggling to find happiness.

While I wait for that situation to happen, I've been working on improving myself and keeping things simple and easy. There's nothing quite like clarity and peace of mind and I hope to never let go of that again.
I’m really good at
Intuitively reading situations... I also love a good challenge or trick questions.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and how much I pay attention while pretending not to.. also how willing I am to be honest... brutally, uncomfortably honest sometimes, haha.
The six things I could never do without
My son, my dog, outdoor adventures, good friends, a challenge, and my plants.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What to do next in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Browsing okcupid trying to decide if I should go be social or continue hiding apparently.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no idea what I'm doing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Your not one of those ladies who expect the guy to do everything, and you have something interesting to kick this conversation off with. Also, it helps if you can help carry the conversation so I'm not doing all the work. =)