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56 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–65
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 15
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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My best decision has been to put the happiness, welfare and growth of my children and family front, center, foremost. Everything else got in line and has come along nicely. I live looking at what's before me and just a little bit ahead while my thoughts of the past are briefer than this sentence.

My early years were spent in two middle eastern countries where we lived in the local economy and where I was clearly a noticeable and largely unwelcomed outsider. "Yankee Go Home" was one of the first sentences I learned to read in English. Fortunately I spoke a few other languages.

Those years guided me to pay attention to surroundings, people, nuances, preferences and differences. So, I'm as American as one can get while still not being the average guy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Giving myself permission to be who I am.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Word puzzles and making outrageous, but not malicious, statements.
I'm also good at cooking, from short order to fancy.
Oh, travel...I'm good at travel
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not so sure since they may "notice" but they normally don't "say." Although I will admit that a lot of people ask me "So, what's your heritage?" To which I normally reply "American" although I know exactly what they're really asking.
...and I've got four dogs, three of whom are adopted and possess peculiar habits and particular tastes. So I get a lot of "Four dogs?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read at least one book a week, almost always non-fiction. My favorite book is the one I'm reading right at this moment.
As for food, movies and music I am strictly ravenous and omnivorous.
If you have a favorite movie you want to see, I will go with you. If you've got a cuisine you want to try, I'm your man. If there is a dive bar you must frequent, pour me a shot.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My lifelong quest is to hold dearly the six things I can never do without, second of which is not limiting myself.
I'm not sure why the list goes to six. Does anyone? Why not seven? Or five? Heck, three will make this question even more compelling.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try not to overthink but sometimes I wonder if the answers I'm giving here are attracting or repelling that partner I seek. And then I stop with a "Well, if she is perfect for me she will be cool with the answers I've long as I'm being truthful." So I spend a lot of time thinking about if I'm being truthful or wishful or embellishful.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no aspiration to the typical and I wouldn't want to put so much pressure on Friday. So my ambitious is to make Friday night as pressure free as Tuesday night and to make Thursday midday as anticipated as Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like ABBA
You should message me if
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