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lady_sybarite

34 F Weston, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:40am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Malay (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
~~Profile finally updated / edited:

I think of myself as a global nomad really. Eclectic background – born in Asia, educated in the UK and Australia, work between continents, dodgy clear cut accent, multilingual and multifaceted. Travel is a constant with me, professionally – attached to an international conglomerate working in a tough industry and personally, with family strewn across the globe.

Have and tend to devote (too much) time to both my educational pursuits (ugh done now!) and professional career – one greasy rung at a time. While fruitful, it sadly hasn't left time for much else. Or as Lennon put it; life is what happens when you are busy making other plans.

Personality wise, the good, bad, ugly of it: Great sense of humour, making others laugh (OMG you are so funny...for a woman! Erm quiteee..) remain passionate about the issues that matter most, am wickedly sarcastic, sassy and can exasperate the calmest of individuals. I’m also serious, quiet, understanding, calm, intelligent, intense, loyal, passionate and have a temper when riled!

I’m action oriented, and while I like to get things done quickly, I like them done well. I almost always plan things out. I love new experiences, soaking up the different and diverse, and appreciate anything that expands my mind. I also love to be challenged thought for thought as I find intense in-depth conversation sexy, from politics to satire, to why I find Eric Cartman a dreamboat.

My idea of a successful relationship is ultimately where a fantastic solid friendship begins. That coupled with a good balance of independence, chemistry (mental and physical), clear expectations, and that elusive” IT “factor clinches the deal.

~~UPDATE: Apologies if you write and I don’t reply. Please try again as am currently re-locating for work purposes hence when I do check OK it’s the mobile version and messages tend to slip through the cracks.
What I’m doing with my life
Life is pretty busy and I’m trying to keep up – my dream job found me a couple of years ago and I haven’t stopped since.

While also busy making time for family and friends, life's treasured memories include... skiing (badly!) on trails across the Black Mountains in Maine, long walks and rambles through the Boston Commons, a jog with the dogs on a breathtaking autumn evening in Connecticut, nibbling on roasted chestnuts on a cold evening in London and enjoying amazing dim sum at a back street stall in Hong Kong.

The highlight of Germany (work and play) last year was basking in the glory of the breathtaking grounds at Herrenchiemsee in Bavaria (should be on your bucket list!).

Love food but mainly cook the things I'm good at , plus I bake a wicked batch of Belgian chocolate muffins with drizzled caramel on top!
I’m really good at
Being competitive and listening without judging. Also making the people around me laugh when they need it the most (or least!) and offering quiet support. Baby sitting too apparently – (several quiet evenings hijacked by friends desperately needing a night out and baby has nowhere to go!)
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on where I am really - people have some interesting perceptions but mainly my hazel eyes and my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
***Update:
Current airport reading includes the eclectic mix of Chomsky's Hopes and Prospects and How to Tell If Your Cat Is Plotting to Kill You [not as bizarre as it sounds! :-P]

Also besides the usual soundtracks, have gone back to listening to a lot of 80s music...think Mister Mister, Sting, Sade etc. Help loads while on long haul transit :-s

****
Books – Am keen on autobiographies to political thrillers, to fiction or non. I get as much pleasure reading something from Patricia Potter as I do Dr. Seuss.

Movies – Braveheart, Gladiator, Blade Runner, The Wind That Shakes the Barley, Godfather, In The Name of the Father, A Few Good Men, Cat On A Hot Tin Roof, Giant, There will be blood, No Country for Old Men, Schindlers List, Shawshank Redemption, Boys Don’t Cry, The Exorcist, La Femme Nikita, The Insider, The Departed, The Killing Fields etc.

Music – Favourites include Sting, Sade, Sneaker Pimps, Jamiroquai, Billie Holiday, U2, Kanye West, Metallica, Stereophonics, Gypsy Kings, Seal, George Michael, Matchbox 20, Norah Jones, Faith Hill, Jewel, Leona Lewis, Sarah McLachlan, The Fray, and Dishwalla.

Food – A bit picky about my food, also a junk food addict, however absolutely adore Malaysian, Italian, Chinese, Thai, Indian, Japanese.
The six things I could never do without
Family (the entire nutty lot)
Friends (the sort that does tell you your bum looks fat in those pants)
My BB for work + laptop for my sanity
My dogs Max & Renee
Tea accompanied by Marmite and cheese toast
Good book and spa holidays
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The maddening pace of life, why cant everyday be a Sunday(?), my next holiday, the next great challenge, just thinking..
On a typical Friday night I am
Various scenarios include out with friends for dinner and a movie, working late, off away on a weekend jaunt somewhere, away on business, dead to the world asleep..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I bite my nails, nasty childhood habit. Oh and bargain hunting for books off Amazon, rather addicted to the words "Free Super Saver Delivery" (wince)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
- you are well balanced, funny, serious, engaging (no grunting pls!) committed, and are done playing games in general.
- you think anything/something I've said above resonates with you.
- you are a hunky chef (or can cook Italian divinely!) and happy to share expertise/feed me (I'll spring for the groceries) :-P
- oh or if you are an engineer / lawyer / academic because all the profiles that seem to pop out at me have that listed as jobs! So must be due to the industry I'm in or OKC playing tricks on me again.
- you want to disregard point 4 :-)

Please do NOT message if all you want to do is leave sexually explicit messages. It wastes my time and shames your mother.