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lady_sybarite

33 / F / Straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 12:54am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Malay (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a bit of a contradictory personality. On one hand I love laughing, making others laugh, remain passionate about the issues that matter most, am wickedly sarcastic, sassy, and can exasperate the most calm of individuals (yes rare talent that).

I’m also quite capable of being serious, understanding, calm, intelligent, intense, loyal, passionate, and open to listening.

I’m action oriented, I like getting things done quickly but done well. I love experiencing new things, meeting people, soaking up the different and diverse, expanding my mind.

I can be impatient (horribly so behind the wheel) and love to be challenged thought for thought. I find intense in depth conversation sexy and can rabbit on about unique life changing moments, the abysmal state of world politics to the fascination men (and some women) have of Katie Price.

My idea of a successful relationship is one where a fantastic friendship begins. That coupled with a good balance of independence, chemistry, clear expectations, understanding and the elusive "It factor" clinches the deal.
What I’m doing with my life
My dream job found me, am currently juggling my new portfolio, travelling loads, meeting fascinating people and very much enjoying the challenge.

Am hoping that since I've achieved most of what I've set out to in the last couple of years, my final goal wont be that hard to come by...?

UPDATE!!!: Apologies if you write to me and I don't reply. I travel a lot and am also currently relocating for work purposes hence when I do check OK its the mobile version and messages tend to slip through the cracks!
I’m really good at
Being competitive. Listening without judging. Making the people around me laugh when they need it the most (or least!). Problem solving. Offering quiet support and being an open personality.
The first things people usually notice about me
is me! What else would they notice? Oh and perhaps my chuckles :-D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
***Update:
Current airport reading includes the eclectic mix of Chomsky's Hopes and Prospects and How to Tell If Your Cat Is Plotting to Kill You [not as bizarre as it sounds! :-P]

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Books – Am keen on autobiographies to political thrillers, to fiction or non. I get as much pleasure reading something from Patricia Potter as I do Dr. Seuss.

Movies – Braveheart, Gladiator, Blade Runner, The Wind That Shakes the Barley, Godfather, In The Name of the Father, A Few Good Men, Cat On A Hot Tin Roof, Giant, There will be blood, No Country for Old Men, Schindlers List, Shawshank Redemption, Boys Don’t Cry, The Exorcist, La Femme Nikita, The Insider, The Departed, The Killing Fields etc.

Music – Favourites include Sting, Sade, Sneaker Pimps, Jamiroquai, Billie Holiday, U2, Kanye West, Metallica, Stereophonics, Gypsy Kings, Seal, George Michael, Matchbox 20, Norah Jones, Faith Hill, Jewel, Leona Lewis, Sarah McLachlan, The Fray, and Dishwalla.

Food – A bit picky about my food, also a junk food addict, however absolutely adore Malaysian, Italian, Chinese, Thai, Indian, Japanese. Favorites also include bread pudding, chocolate cake, mango sorbet, cold peaches in heavy syrup, fresh fruit.
The six things I could never do without
Family (the entire nutty lot)
Friends (the sort that does tell you your bum looks fat in those pants)
My BB for work + laptop for my sanity
My dogs Max & Renee
Tea accompanied by Marmite and cheese toast
Good book and spa holidays
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The maddening pace of life, why cant everyday be a Sunday(?), my next holiday, the next great challenge, just thinking..
On a typical Friday night I am
Various scenarios include out with friends for dinner and a movie, working late, off away on a weekend jaunt somewhere, away on business, dead to the world asleep..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I bite my nails, nasty childhood habit. Oh and bargain hunting for books off Amazon, rather addicted to the words "Free Super Saver Delivery" (wince)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You'd like to say hello!