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35 Weston, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29-43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:54am
Asian, White
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Malay (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update August 2015:
Outline below remains but please note I am in the U.S. on sabbatical and taking a much needed break.

Plans remain fluid at this point but am open to you saying hello and taking things from there! I look forward to speaking ;-)


I think of myself as a global nomad really. Eclectic background - bi-racial, educated in the UK and Australia, work between continents, multilingual
and multifaceted.

Friends have described me as:
- Great sense of humour
- Sassy and can exasperate the calmest of individuals
- Serious, quiet, understanding, calm, intelligent,
- Intense, loyal, passionate and has a temper when

I love diverse new experiences and anything that further expands my mind. I enjoy being challenged thought for thought as I find in-depth conversation sexy.

I am at a stage where my personal life comes first -
serious and long term.

My idea of a successful relationship is ultimately where a fantastic solid friendship begins. That coupled with a good balance of independence, chemistry (mental and physical), clear expectations, and that elusive "IT" factor clinches the deal.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Life is pretty busy and I’m trying to slow down and smell the roses - finally! At the mulling over stages of a career change...

I enjoy hiking, kayaking and generally spending time outdoors. I workout at the gym - mainly because it helps with stress and because I think food is glorious!

While I ensure I make time for family and friends, travel is a definite must and I look forward to my holidays.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making the people around me laugh when they need it the most (or least!) and offering quiet support.

Problem solving, being goal oriented and giving amazing cuddles!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends on where I am really - people have some interesting perceptions but mainly my hazel eyes and my lips.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books – Am keen on autobiographies to political thrillers, to fiction or non. I get as much pleasure reading something from Patricia Potter as I do Dr. Seuss.

Movies – Braveheart, Gladiator, Blade Runner, The Wind That Shakes the Barley, Godfather, In The Name of the Father, A Few Good Men, Cat On A Hot Tin Roof, Giant, There will be blood, No Country for Old Men, Schindlers List, Shawshank Redemption, Boys Don’t Cry, The Exorcist, La Femme Nikita, The Insider, The Departed, The Killing Fields etc.

Music – Favourites include Sting, Sade, Sneaker Pimps, Jamiroquai, Billie Holiday, U2, Kanye West, Metallica, Stereophonics, Gypsy Kings, Seal, George Michael, Matchbox 20, Norah Jones, Faith Hill, Jewel, Leona Lewis, Sarah McLachlan, The Fray, and Dishwalla.

Food – A bit picky about my food, also a junk food addict, however absolutely adore Malaysian, Italian, Chinese, Thai, Indian, Japanese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family (the entire nutty lot)
Friends (the sort that does tell you your bum looks fat in those pants)
My BB for work + laptop for my sanity
My dogs Max & Renee
Tea accompanied by Marmite and cheese toast
Good book and spa holidays
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The maddening pace of life, why cant everyday be a Sunday(?), my next holiday, the next great challenge, just thinking..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Various scenarios include out with friends for dinner and a movie, working late, off away on a weekend jaunt somewhere, away on business, dead to the world asleep..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I bite my nails, nasty childhood habit...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. You are well balanced, funny, serious, engaging, and are done with the fun and games;

2. You think anything I’ve said above resonates with you.

3. You have a picture on your profile taken with an adorable niece/nephew or your pets! – love both.

4. You think we have the same value system or just to have a good chat to see if we have compatibility beyond our profile pages.

5. You want children (won't work if you aren't keen) and do NOT smoke.

Please DO NOT message if all you want to do is leave sexually explicit messages. It wastes my time and shames your mother.