lady_tao
23 Toronto, Ontario, CA
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My self-summary
I'm a crazy, socialist, hippie feminist who believes that everyone should be equal no matter their class, gender, race, whatever. I think we should be taking better care of our environment. I am a pansexual, polyamorous, genderqueer person (mostly femme) who would love to be living in a sex positive world.

I am in a relationship with maybeamartian: his profile can be found here http://www.okcupid.com/profile/maybeamartian

I'm looking for relationships of all kinds right now, but I am also interested in finding someone to date who can understand that I work shift work and as such may not be as available as I would like to be.
What I’m doing with my life
I have finished a bachelor's in English and Women and Gender studies and am holding down two jobs. I hope to complete a masters and pursue further studies in either Women and Gender studies or Ecocriticism. I am also considering Social Work, and am looking to actually become fluent in ASL at sometime in the near future. I am an avid writer and am working on getting my work out into the world beyond the local circuit.
I’m really good at
Writing, knitting, putting up with people, cooking and baking, and making things with my hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really open and energetic. I'm also very giving, but I really don't put up with crap...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favourite books are the Harry Potter series, anything by H.P. Lovecraft or Edgard Allen Poe, the Special-X series, and any novelization of my favourite shows. But then again, I've not really met any book I didn't like.
I also enjoy Shakespeare and various poets, my fav being e.e. cummings.
My favourite shows include Criminal Minds, Angel, Bones, CSI, Doctor Who, Sherlock, House, Grimm and RuPaul's Drag Race.
I'm not that picky with music, I'll try pretty much everything but my favourites are old school rock and classical (I play an instrument, I'm biased).
I love japanese, chinese, indian and italian food, but I also like being surprised by my meals.
My favourite movies include Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Inception, Repo the Genetic Opera, Chocolat, Sleepy Hollow or really anything by Tim Burton.
The six things I could never do without
The six things I could never live without? My notebook and pen (only counts as one), my cat, a novel (preferably an intelligent one), duct tape, music, and given the choice my costumes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing, content for my poems, feminist theory, fandom and my schoolwork.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing video games, catching up on my shows, attending a reading or going out for sushi and drinks with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have major trust issues
You should message me if
You're looking for someone who loves intelligent conversation and theoretical discussions. If you like to talk about obscure shows, nerdy things, or costuming. You should message me if you are looking for someone who knows what she wants, and only asks for openness in return. I don't do well with dishonesty.
You should message me if you are comfortable with polyamory, talking at length about feminism (real feminism) and queer issues, and should feel free to message me even if you're just looking for friends.
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