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30 F Hilo, HI

My Details

Last Online
Aug 14, 2012
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
**** I just started a new relationship, and am very excited to see where it goes! *****

I have a BA in Psychology and am working on my MA in Early Childhood Ed. I work at a preschool with three and four year olds, which is amusing, heartbreaking, and incredibly challenging. I am in the process of getting divorced, which luckily is amicable. Strangely enough the same three adjectives aply. However I agree with Spinoza who said that "[a]ll happiness or unhappiness solely depends upon the quality of the object to which we are attached by love”. Make of that what you will :)

I am a total geek, and though I don't have much time for it anymore, I love to play video games and rpgs like D&D. I also am sort of an experimental cook and tend to go mad scientist in the kitchen. I start lots of projects like crocheting or knitting scarves or sewing curtains that I get partway through and forget about for months then finish or turn into something else.

I read a lot of science fiction and fantasy novels, though I have an addiction to terrible fantasy romances right now. There really is no accounting for tsste. At least I can't account for that particular taste, blame it on an overactive imagination I suppose... I love philosophy and physics. I try to understand them, but so far have limited success. I have a drooly cat who routinely invades my personal space, which is adorable and gross.

I am sarcastic, ironic and alternate between annoying optimism and extremely dark humor. I like to laugh at the awful parts of life. I also think that a good zombie invasion would be great for the world.

I'm looking for a friend, a confidant, a partner in crime with a sense of humor, steady job, and own gaming system. Please send picture of gaming system.

I am hopeful, dreamy, and goofy
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, this minute? Finishing school and working.

What I want to do with my life is finish my master's degree. Maybe open my own charter school. Maybe travel. Maybe invent something or learn to paint. Take piano lessons again, or join a choir. Garage band?

I'm just figuring it all out and pursuing my happiness, which I am assured is an inalienable right.
I’m really good at
Legitimation and Rationalization, and hence Procrastination.

Also I can spell dirigible.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told my eyes.

Then comes the obscure humor based on philosophy, literature, grammar, internet and geek culture, and irony. I'm a big fan of irony. Most of my jokes are directed at myself, I can take as well as dish it out, so bring on self-deprecation!
The six things I could never do without
new information about anything and everything, people to talk to and love, my kitties, being outside, music that I can sing along to, cozy place to sleep, and comfortable shoes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe, what does it all mean anyway? Who am I?
Where am I going? Am I going or are things coming to me?

What is the relationship between two events, seemingly unrelated? There has to be one, right?

What am I going to snack on next? What book will I read next? What did the last one really mean? What's the historical significance of that last literary device anyway?

Where's my cat?
On a typical Friday night I am
Lurking online to find a friend to play Scrabble with. I love me some scrabble. Really. I have a severely limited social life.

On an atypical Friday night, I party with friends and have adventures of epic proportions. Then once again lament the loss of my future political career when the pics show up on Facebook.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My childhood ambition was to be Spiderman.

I'm a lot less daring now than I was at 16.

I've actually never seen a Star Trek movie all the way through.

I'm addicted to learning things.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You actually read this entire profile. You like and understand Spinoza, because then you can explain the finer points to me, and maybe Liebniz as well. Message me if you like pirates or ninjas and tell me which side you're for. Message me if you're fun and like to hang out, if you like comic books, if you also like to sing loudly in the car. Message me just because you felt like it. I'm a fan of the random act of communication, low key and rather silly.