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ladycunegonde

48 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:35pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Indian, White, Other
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm open to meeting all kinds of people. I love learning about people. I may not click with everyone I meet but I still find people interesting and usually come away from the encounter with something (whether that something is good or not is up for debate :p ). On this site, I would love to meet people to hang out with or to become long distance friends with. BUT if you are very religious then I'm not the girl for you although maybe we could be friends as long as you know I will NOT be swayed from my heathen ways.

What am I looking for:
I want to have fun (don't we all?). I want to have coffee/tea/drinks, visit Museums, find little hole in the wall restaurants with "to die for" food, explore the city and stumble upon places I never knew existed and find really cool interesting people to do that with. That isn't too much to ask for is it? But alas it seems to be elusive so we've all come here. Finding someone you connect with and have chemistry with is HARD even amongst the millions of people in this great city. So I figured I would up my odds of finding someone by putting myself online.

Me: I'm imperfect (I know shock right) but I try everyday to be and do better. I'm not skinny and I'm not fat. I'm just right (like Goldilocks said of Baby Bear's things) but again that just right may not be your just right. I clicked body type as average but I wouldn't say I'm that. I would have checked curvy but a guy once told me that when a men read curvy online they take it to mean a women is FAT so I checked average. I'd say I was more curvy or voluptuous. By that I mean, my body looks more like Salma Hayek or Christina Hendricks from Mad Men (altho my Boobs are probably not as big as hers LOL). I try to keep my pictures as current as I can and to give some body shots so there are no surprises if we do meet. Looks matter. It isn't the main thing but anyone who says it isn't a factor is lying to themselves. I've been disappointed before so I try to be honest.

I'm intelligent, knowledgeable, funny, sarcastic and those are my bad traits :p I try to read a lot and keep up with what is going on in the world because I consider myself a citizen of the World first and an American 2nd. My parents are both from the Caribbean so I grew up with a world view different from my friends whose parents were several generations "American".

I'm compassionate and generous. I try to give back if I can whether that is monetarily or emotionally. Monetarily has been a little more of an issue lately since I no longer have a high powered job. Having said that, I support myself quite well and am not looking for a guy to take care of me! I'm really not one of those women who is looking for you to financially support me. In fact, in the past I've been the one who has given more financial support to my significant other. So Ideally I'd like someone who is my partner/friend/equal. If you see something I like (a book I mentioned or a shirt I saw), then I would appreciate it if you bought it for me but I'd also appreciate it if you sat and listened to a problem I had or rubbed my back.

*UPDATE Oct 2012- I just moved back to Brooklyn! So I'm looking for people who want to hang and help me get reacquainted with my hometown.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning to smell the roses and helping the people around me as much as I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Making people laugh
-Sarcasm
-Sleeping
-Staying up too late (which is part of the reason I'm good at sleeping ;))
-Procrastinating
-Talking
-Listening (Really I'm great at this...I just spent 2 1/2 hrs listening to a Girlfriend talk about her love life...Geez)
-Multi tasking
-Dancing
-Being creative
-Googling
-Being the wing-woman for my two BBFFs (best boy friends forever....We've been friends for over 25 yrs now and I've helped them get many a date over the years)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Eyes
My Smile

I also get a lot of people who think I look younger than I am; And I mean really younger....Like 10 yrs! (Some even say 20 yrs but I think they are smoking something :p All I can say is Thanks Mom & Dad).....And no it is not just Men who are trying to get in my pants who tell me this. Women tell me all the time and ask me what moisturizer I use :) I'm really cool with this fact!

"Too bad there isn't a body type for "smoking hot"... and this is coming from a straight woman!" - This is a quote from my friend cmejennie who put this on here back when you could give props to your friends. I've kept it for sentimental reasons. So when I'm 90 I can remember once I was "smoking hot".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I LOVE TO READ

The last great book I read: This Is Where I Leave You
by Jonathan Tropper

Favorite Books: The Alchemist, The Prophet

Books I like: Siddhartha, Demian, The Dante Club, Life of Pi, Running with Scissors, Einstein's Dream, The Master and Margarita, Dry, Lovely Bones, Fahrenheit 451, Atonement, Hey Nostradamus, Veronica Decides to Die, Celestine Prophecy, Candide, Handmaiden's Tale, The Blind Assassin, Da Vinci Code, Catch-22, 1984, A Million Little Pieces, Slaughterhouse-Five, Metemorphosis, Middlesex, The Stand, The Stranger, The Red Tent, Sophie's Choice, The Alienist, Interpreter of Maladies, She's Comes Undone, The Kite Runner

Reading Now: I'm reading Fingersmith by Sarah Walters. It was hard to get into at first but after the first 50/75 pages it grabs you & won't let you put it down.

TV: Lost, The Daily Show, Real Time with Bill Maher,Battlestar Galactica, Fringe, Star Trek (all versions), Weeds,The Tudors, Dr Who, Torchwood, MI-5 aka Spooks in UK, Downton Abbey, The Newsroom, Game of Thrones......These are just a few of my favorite as well as various News Programs from different sources EXCEPT FOX NEWS! If you watch Fox for anything but a laugh, we will not be compatible.

Food: Thai, Italian, Japanese, Indian...I'm an adventurous diner.

Movie: The Usual Suspects, Dogma, Good Will Hunting, Shawshank Redemption, The Wizard of Oz, Serenity, The Matrix, The Birdcage, Blade Runner, The Sound of Music, Sin City, The Fifth Element, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Good Will Hunting , Slumdog Millionaire........these are just a few of my favorites

I was just watching the movie The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel and a quote in the movie struck me as true.
Evelyn says: Nothing here has worked out quite as I expected.
Muriel says: Most things don't. But sometimes what happens instead is the good stuff.

That last one surely reflects my life. How about yours?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books
My Macbook and the Internet
Lip balm
Moisturizer
Chocolate
My dog Tiana - Shelter rescued Mini Poodle!
Friends/Family (I know they aren't things)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life
Sex
Love
World problems
Current Events
Why I'm attracted to men who have cats when I'm allergic to them
Why men think starting off online chat with sex talk or sexual innuendos is a good way to go. We will get there guys I promise but lets start out getting to know one another. We can do the sex talk the 3rd time we talk. ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home watching Sci-Fi Friday ;)..Yeah I'm a Sci Fi Geek
Or hanging with some of my friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Like a friend of mine said....I'm way to preoccupied with taking OKCupid tests!!...I'm looking to start a support group for other OKCupid test takers....Wanna join?

Secret #2 - I'm not perfect :o....Shhhh don't tell anyone I told you....It can be our little secret ;)....LOL

"Dare to be imperfect and one day there will tug at your sleeve a soulmate." ~Robert Brault

I do love a good quote ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You read something in my profile that sparks your interest. I'm NOT here for casual sex so if that is what you want, you need to click on by me.

Another quote from the movie Best Exotic Marigold Hotel
"The only real failure is the failure to try and the measure of success is how we cope with disappointment, as we must.....Maybe what we fear is that it will be the same so we must celebrate the changes. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing. All we know about the future is that it will be different."
Are you willing to risk messaging me and maybe meeting? Maybe you will meet a friend. Maybe more.

Peace out

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