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55 F Sunnyvale, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 48–65
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey, thanks for stopping by. What can I say that will spark your interest? (I wish I knew.)

I drive fast and play my music loud. I am happily independent. I have great friends and family and a great life. So why am I here? The same reason you are--human companionship on a different level. I have a BIG empty space in my life.

I miss YOU! You are someone who cares about me on a personal level. A friendly face to talk to at the end of the day, (the dog is getting tired of me.) I am important to you and know that you have my back when I need you. You are well-educated, and a kind and a decent man.

I miss affection; kisses, and intimacy which can be mind-numbingly incredible with the right person.

My friends will tell you I am sweet, funny, and witty. I am not a drama queen. I am 100% woman--no tom boy here--you are not going to find me roughing it out in the wilderness. But I love being out in nature and it doesn't mean I wouldn't be down for some hiking, fishing or horseback riding, I just need flush toilets and hot showers.

I LOVE the fine arts and it would be great to meet a like soul. Anything under the stars has the potential for romance: live music, concerts, or Shakespeare. Then of course there's dancing, wine tasting, day trips--that's the kind of stuff I would like to do with a great partner. I enjoy watching sports. You might have to teach me a few things about your particular favorite. I am open to trying new things. Relationships mean meshing two lives together.

I'm pretty much looking for a guy who is age appropriate, who can "add" to my life--not bring drama and angst to it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work full time plus. I love gym workouts and eating healthy. I feel more vibrant and alive than I have in many years (sometimes I feel like I'm in my second childhood, though hopefully with the wisdom of my years.) I want to live a BIG life because not everyone gets that chance. I hope that includes YOU!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm great with kids. They seem to gravitate to me like I'm a magnet, and that utterly delights me!

FYI- I'm pretty good at spotting you guys with the fake profiles (scammers & cat fishers) I have reported DOZENS of you--if your photo can't stand up to a google search then get a life and move on!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told I have some nice assets so it's good to know the gym is paying off! But you might have another idea...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Survival books, best sellers, some romance, also Grisham and Patterson.
Movies: romantic comedies, adventure, historical fiction
Shows: ALL OF IT! Opera, ballet, musicals, symphony, drama-- love them all!
Music: Classical, top 40, country western--yee ha!
Food: must be healthy--- I refuse to waste my calories on crappy food!
TV: the Big Bang Theory, Survivor, Modern Family, the Good Wife, Millionaire Matchmaker, Sex and the City, Seinfeld, Friends
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
good wine/cheese - (I've never seen anyone put cheese in the list!)
great coffee,
the horn on my car,
hot showers,
my boots--yay! It's almost boot time again!
(They make me feel sexy...)
...uhhhh... maybe they ARE in order...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why do so many people lie about their education on this site? It's pretty easy to figure out once we start messaging. Your (sic) not fooling anyone. :/
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either I crash and burn after an intense week or I try to put something together with friends. I prefer the latter. Of course it would be more fun with someone to share the hours with...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I see you checking out at the grocery store and you are using their plastic or paper bags----I immediately judge myself to be a better person than you because I have my own reusable bags.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Don't be shy--if you are a LOCAL, age appropriate, fun guy and young at heart. Your profile and message writing needs to show your EDUCATION. I expect to exchange some messages/emails and then meet up. I'm not looking for a long distance pen pal or an everlasting email buddy.