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56 Sunnyvale, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 52–64
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:22am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm taking a step back from my attempts to write a creative, funny profile that does justice.... imagine we are at an event---we smile at each other across the crowded room. Are you going to come over? Will you introduce yourself? You know nothing about me except that we have a common interest or a friend. Primarily you will decide on a purely visceral feeling. Are you ready to get to know me in a rather old fashioned way--talking face to face? We will find out our commonalities and our differences. Will it bring us together or push us apart? Do opposites attract or is it better to have lots of things in common? Will you look back someday and think 'wow--what were the chances?' What a great story that could be...

I am looking for the one who eyes light up when he sees me, the one who holds a kiss inside that makes my heart leap. And maybe-- just maybe I'm holding that same special kiss just for you--the one that makes you weak in the knees. Those kisses that we will share with each other until we are ready to sit side by side, holding hands on the porch. (NOT anytime soon please!)

We have so many choices with everything in life now, that we often go with the easy one--indecision. What is your decision?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hard to make a difference in the lives of the children I tutor and just plain working hard in all aspects of my life--not everyone gets that chance. I enjoy my time at the gym (spin & body pump) and eating healthy. And yes I have time for you :) LOTS of time for dancing, live music, live sports, museums, opera, musicals, jazz, street faires, walking in the redwoods or drives to explore new places. I'm open for new experiences. What will you introduce to me? What are your favorites? Golfing? Horseback riding? Fishing? Hiking? (I've done all those...) Cycling? I've done my share in the gym, is it time to buy a buy a bike and try the trails or streets with you? Bottom line--all things are more fun with a friend. And that's what I miss. To almost everything I say "why not???"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am GREAT at staying positive and looking for the good when things head south. I take great pride in saving lives by donating blood every 8 weeks! I'm creative and organized and love layout and design work. I'm great friend, sister, mother and daughter. I enjoy cooking, making jam, baking cookies (especially for someone I care about!) I'm a great writer---and I am hopeful it will work in this venue eventually.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll skip the obvious--hard to be original here-- you can have an engaging conversation with me--I'm not a vapid bimbo, even if I am a curvy blonde....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I know how to read--and LOVE to...
Movies: big fan
Shows: love them all! Opera, musicals, ballet...
Music: adore it, especially live!
Food: Yes, I eat and love to...who doesn't?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. sex, love, kissing and intimacy
2. laughter
3. respect
4. compassion, hopes and dreams
5. my gym membership
6. my kids--they're the best part of my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why do the messages I get always start with 'I'm new here' ???
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...spending time with my son. He leaves in August for his doctorate--he's my last fledgling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want to wake up loving you.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
ONLY if you are ready! And you are a positive, funny, sexy, fit, honest, caring man who is looking for those same qualities in a woman.

BTW-I am fighting my chronological age every step of the way! (Not foolishly.) So if you are older than me and you've ever said these words: 'I like my age', we probably aren't a good match.

(And please live close by.)