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48 F Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jan 27
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm at a point in my life were I just want to make friends and have fun. I'm not into games what you see is what you get. I have a fun loving nature but not a lot of close personal friends to share it with. So what I'd like is to make some long term friends some I'm physically intimate with and some I'm intimate with in other ways.
Hello again, Let me share a little about myself and what leads me to your door. I am at the it's complicated side of a 21 yr marriage with mrgeterdone We are best friends love each other but not in love. We are good together if we don't mix sex, love and intimate feelings. We have never been match in that way. I have spent most of this marriage starved for well anything between lovers, This last starvation cycle started 2 years ago. when I first came to this site we had decided to open our relationship up. Now after 6 months we realize I'm poly and we work best in an open poly/mono relationship. Since all this started I have meet a few good partners, some only interested in casual encounters and one that has turned into a really good friend and casual play partner, but again there is no romantic intimacy with him just fwb. My heart is still in need of a soft touch and kind loving. If you treat me like I'm important to you then we can explore my good girl/bad girl sides. In other words I'm open sexually but to the right person. I have spent a lot of time on fetlife( same profile name) you can feel free to visit me there.
I'm still hoping to meet a top poly partner. One I can go to adult clubs with like cspc, eros And feel comfortable spending one on one time with as well as going on casual dates with.
I am a very open person and respect if you are not. If this has your interest then message me.update 12/26/13 I have a new primary partner and only play with him as a couple at clubs.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm getting things I want and some I don't. I could use more play time with partners that can give and take.
11-4-11 update
at the moment I'm in school so there goes a lot of my free time
I’m really good at
Arts and crafts. I'm nuts about beading and fiber arts. I'm always looking for new things to try. I could tell you all this fluff about myself but really isn't it more fun to find out in person.
The first things people usually notice about me
That would be my smile, I've been told I give a lot away about myself through my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm really into Steven King, not just for the scary of it but the way he makes you think what if. it would be hard being his wife i mean when he turns to you and says "honey what if" or "I was thinking"...
The six things I could never do without
Coffee ! being loved I'm a cuddle bug, an open and honest relationship, my friends at the wetspot, My independence, and spell check on thid computer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How am I going to get through school? Why hasn't anyone read clan of the cave bear or the star cat chronicles. and will I ever find a lover who can keep up with me.
On a typical Friday night I am
wanting to unwind after a week of school, needing to release tension and focus on some basic bodily needs. wink
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I do not do anything in my life unless I can admit to it and own up to it. Needless to say my honesty gets me in trouble. You are on your own in telling your personal shit.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
oh lord I don't know,need a friend to look for purple turtles in the moonlight. ( note it is 3:42 am when I wrote this) and don't mind getting caught in the rain something about fruity drinks but it is seattle and all i could remember was the rain thing. I wonder if purple turtles like fruity drinks in the rain? or is that a Beatles song.