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33 Portland, OR Woman


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  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 19
Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual, Straight
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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a charming, nerdy type with a sassy mouth and a 'go with the flow' personality. i think a playful mindset is crucial to a well-lived life, and that it's best reinforced with a healthy mix of adventurous spirit, intellectual skepticism, and perverse humor.

invariably drawn to substance over sparkle. entertainment for its own sake is nice, but i prefer to be engaged and to see the value in the experiences i undertake.

i have little interest in following socially prescribed norms. life's too short to waste it being conformist. i dream of traveling the world, participating in intentional communities, and doing amazing, novel things with the limited time i'm allotted on this gorgeous planet.
What I’m doing with my life
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in graduate school for applied developmental psychology. it's kind of like being a systems engineer, but with human development instead of machines. my sub-specialties are civic engagement/ community building, autism, and developmental approaches to education. i'm a humanist who believes in working to make the world a better place while we're here. i get a lot of flak for being idealistic, but i'm all too aware of how the world works. i just think life is infinitely more satisfying when you contribute to something greater than yourself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing; asking insightful questions; playing with dogs and children; procrastinating; editing/writing; cooking; creative thinking
The first things people usually notice about me
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physically: eyes; breasts; hair.

personality: twisted sense of humor; talent for articulation; disregard for convention; entertainingly clumsy moments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: addicted to buying them, but i rarely read one all the way through. enjoy fiction when it pulls me in, but my default tendency is towards non-fiction. mostly i compulsively read news and research online.

Movies: kooky independents, well written scripts and the occasional formulaic feel good, but mostly stand up comedy and documentaries.

Shows: house of cards, archer, masters of sex, game of thrones, newsroom, louie, six feet under, weeds.

Music: breakbeats, funky house, hip hop, folk, blues, jazz, & indie rock top the list.

Food: vietnamese, indian, thai, japanese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
wouldn't want to live without, anyway:
1. intellectual stimulation
2. playtime with animals (dogs foremost)
3. inspiring views of nature
4. artistry/cultural expression
5. fresh organic produce
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
philosophical abstracts; human development; issues of the world; how to build efficient systems and innovate; how to commit a crime like a professionally trained operative; art of various kinds (dance, music, collage, film, architecture); the people i care about; how to cut food like a french chef; my dog
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
a. catching up on episodes of the daily show & nerding out online.
b. having dinner and deep conversation with a close friend.
c. absorbing culture, dancing or socializing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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mona lisa's got nothing on me.
You should message me if
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you're able to deliver witty comebacks to sarcastic comments; have non-cookie-cutter opinions about things; are passionate about what you’re doing with your life; care about humanity in general/aren’t just out for yourself; appreciate the dorkiness in others.