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ladysapiosexual

32 F Bronx, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 8
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
a charming, nerdy type with a sassy mouth and a 'go with the flow' personality.

invariably drawn to substance over sparkle. entertainment for its own sake is alright, but i prefer to be engaged in activities and to feel like i’m gaining something through the experiences i undertake.

i'm passionate about living a life of discovery and adventure. i'm a big proponent of ‘thinking outside of the box’, and find that doing so provides ample opportunity for two of my favorite things: nuanced analysis and witty sarcasm. i think laughing and playing are kind of the point of life. i have little interest in following socially proscribed norms. i dream of traveling the world, living in intentional communities, and doing amazing, novel things with the limited time i'm allotted on this gorgeous planet.
What I’m doing with my life
in graduate school for applied developmental psychology. it's kind of like being a systems engineer, but with human development instead of machines. my sub-specialties are civic engagement/ community building, autism, and developmental approaches to education. i'm a humanist who believes in working to make the world a better place. i get a lot of slack for being idealistic, but i'm all too aware of how the world works. i just think life is infinitely more satisfying when you contribute to something greater than yourself.
I’m really good at
dancing; asking questions; playing with dogs and children; procrastinating; editing/writing; cooking; creative thinking
The first things people usually notice about me
physically: eyes, breasts, hair.

personality: sardonic sense of humor; ability to articulate; disregard for convention; that i'm entertainingly clumsy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: addicted to buying them, but i rarely read one all the way through. enjoy fiction when it pulls me in, but my default tendency is towards non-fiction. mostly i compulsively read news and research online.

Movies: kooky independents, well written scripts and the occasional formulaic feel good, but mostly stand up comedy and documentaries.

Shows: house of cards, archer, newsroom, six feet under, weeds.

Music: breakbeats, funky house, hip hop, folk, blues, jazz, & indie rock top the list.

Food: vietnamese, indian, thai, japanese.
The six things I could never do without
wouldn't want to live without, anyway:
1. intellectual stimulation
2. playtime with animals (dogs foremost)
3. inspiring views of nature
4. artistry/cultural expression
5. fresh organic produce
I spend a lot of time thinking about
philosophical abstracts; human development; issues of the world; how to build efficient systems and innovate; how to commit a crime like a professionally trained operative; art of various kinds (dance, music, collage, film, architecture); the people i care about; how to cut food like a french chef; my dog
On a typical Friday night I am
a. catching up on episodes of the daily show & nerding out online.
b. having dinner and deep conversation with a close friend.
c. absorbing culture, dancing or socializing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
mona lisa's got nothing on me.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're able to deliver witty comebacks to sarcastic comments; have non-cookie-cutter opinions about things; are passionate about what you’re doing with your life; care about humanity in general/aren’t just out for yourself; appreciate the dorkiness in others.