I am brainy, irreverent, and grounded.
My Self-Summary
First off, I really hate write descriptions of myself, and I'm a
bit incredulous about internet dating. But, a number of people I
know have started long-term relationships this way, so here I
go.
Who am I? My dominant feature is probably that I'm smart and nerdy.
I'm currently in graduate school for a Ph.D. and plan to become a
professor after finishing. I love learning and am fascinated by
almost every subject. And, although I do spend a lot of time, I try
to balance my life with interests outside of academia and book
learning. I enjoy playing tennis and just bought a kayak to use on
these Madison lakes. I am passionate about politics (in the way
that I find it fascinating, not that I'm going around trying to
make everyone think the way I do) and college football and also
like baseball. I really like cheesy television shows and movies. I
have a pretty big CD collection and am frequently on the prowl for
new music--recently I've liked Wilco and Spoon. I truly enjoy life
and all the little and big pleasures that come from it.
I can be a bit shy and quiet when I first meet someone or in groups
of people I don't know well, but, when I get comfortable, I can be
fairly talkative and occasionally funny, although maybe my friends
are just humoring me with their laughter.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, going to school. After graduating from college, I got a
job that I thought I would enjoy but ultimately concluded that it
just wasn't quite the right fit. I find being in graduate school
more fulfilling and satisfying, which is what I'm hoping for in a
career. Outside of work, I have fun with people whom I enjoy
spending time with (I call them "friends").
I’m really good at
Remembering obscure details, being empathetic and sympathetic,
math, cooking, spelling out words with pretzels.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair--it is naturally curly and sometimes gets a little wild
from wind and humidity. Or that I'm tall. Or something else
entirely; I don't ask.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: I'll read pretty much anything, but consistent favorites are
To Kill a Mockingbird, McMurtry, Hawthorne (I said I was geeky!),
McCullough, Dickens (yeah, I'm serious)
Movies: I don't really have favorite movies that I could watch over
and over, but I do have a healthy appreciation for 1980s John
Hughes.
Music: Like books, I can listen to anything, but favorites include
Wilco, Death Cab, Johnny Cash, Bruce, Iron and Wine, Hem, Josh
Ritter, Ray LaMontagne, classical Russian composers
Food: Anything breakfast-y. I could eat breakfast foods for every
meal. Also, Indian, Thai, Chinese, Ethopian, Tex-Mex, cheese, cake,
Dr. Pepper, peaches, and on and on.
The six things I could never do without
I'm not going to count friends and family since they are pretty
obvious and kind of generic answers. But rest easy that I have some
and like them. In no particular order:
1. a comfortable place to sit
2. pens and paper for all those brilliant ideas and little notes
that I write to myself
3. books (yeah, geeky, but it's true)
4. computer with internet access
5. fresh food
6. water (not just because it will keep me alive, but because I
find it quite refreshing)
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually either doing something low-key with friends, like going
to a movie, going to dinner, hanging out at a bar having a few
drinks, or spending a quiet evening at home reading, watching
television, or (gasp!) working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm afraid of finding a fetal chicken every time I crack open an
egg. What, did you expect me to share a big secret?
You should message me if
you like smart girls who don't necessarily act like it all the
time. You consistently spell out "you" and write in complete
sentences. You think staying home and making (or just eating) a pie
would be a good time. You read for fun. You like to be outside on
sunny warm days. You want to.