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37 Tucson, AZ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 12:05pm
Indian, White
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I recently moved here from Baja California Sur, Mexico where I spent most of my time in the water or the mountains....and I miss it. I've been in Mexico for 4 years, mostly in Mexico City....and I also miss that crazy city. Now I am here. I ride my bike all over. I box. I move around and eat good food and read good books. I like horses and racquetball and cheeseburgers and sleeping outside and getting dressed up and snorkeling and making random lists.

Before Mexico I lived in Bolivia which is a beautiful, facinating place. I have been traveling a lot, mostly work with water and rural and peri-urban communities, and I enjoy that. But now I am settling down here for a bit. I have a solid job with the federal government here, so less time to explore the outside world, but more time to settle down and get to know this beautiful area of the planet.

A fun night to me would be going out and seeing some good music, or making dinner (...and yes, I cook both Indian and Italian food, my 2 backgrounds), going hiking/biking or just staying in with a movie and wine. Or good rye whiskey.

I love and house design. I have two cute adobe houses in Albuquerque, and I would like a little piece of land to build a little well-designed house on. That's my next goal.

Oh, I was born and raised in Chicago. I still love that city.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm looking to meet some good people. I play the cajon (when I have people to play with) and was in an awesome band in New Mexico and another of Son Jarocho in Mexico City. I usually struggle with the "desire to settle down and the urge to keep moving"...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good cook (thanks to my mom and pops)...and I'm good at planning road trips and exploring. Eating. Swimming. Laying on the beach.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Calexico, Mexican Institute of Sound, St. Vincent and David Byrne, Neko Case, Son Jarocho, and all old-school East-coast hip hop...
A book that I just read that really struck me is "The Heart is a Lonely Hunter" by Carson McCullers. She was a genius, amazing young woman. Babbitt by Sinclair Lewis is great. No, he did not write The Jungle. That's the other Sinclair.
East of Eden just blew me away. I didn't want it to end.
I don't have cable or Internet at my house. Not because I think it's stupid...but because I have hundreds of books I need to read before I die. And lots of movies to see...and Casa Video is awesome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tacos de nopal, my bike, a good book, my father's advice... and the sun and sea. Oh and This American Life. That's 7.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Impacts of climate change. Gender and migration patterns. Water. Lack of water. Human geography. How I love people but hate humans. Lots of nerd stuff...and when that gets terrifying/overwhelming I switch to: what to read next, what to cook next, where to go next. Shoes. All the cool stuff I have from around the world. How much I love my friends. My parents. My sisters. My awesome family.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out looking for music and dancing, or laying around reading, or drinking a whiskey, or camping or doing all of those things in another town/city.
You should message me if
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You are sincere, and you read my profile before messaging me, and you don't want to spend days and days messaging. I prefer real-life interactions. And don't send me pictures of you holding a giant gun. Or your penis. have a Jstor account and you'll let me use it. And you know what Jstor is.

And please please say more than "hi" in your message. I need something to work with here! :)