Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some people say that I am the funniest person they know. How could
you get through life without a sense of humor? I have a problem
finding enough time for all that I want to do, but I can always
find time for those that I love.
What I’m doing with my life
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Growing intellectually, spiritually. Trying to build a unique photo
Making up for lost time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
a lot of things. I have a broad knowledge, but not too deep in any
area except design, photography, gardening and flea markets. And by
the way, in PRO sports, I score a zero. Who cares? Every game seems
like deja vu.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I haven't gained any weight since college? My blue eyes?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Journeys Out of the Body - Robert Monroe
A Return to Love - Marianne Williamson
My Descent Into Death (An amazing near-death experience and what
Star-Spangled Kitsch (Had to be written by a gay man!)
Cleopatra's Wedding (It's not about Cleopatra at all. Gay life in
The Evolution Angel: An Emergency Physician's Lessons With Death
and the Divine
The Artist's Way (I read it as part of a class. It was
American Beauty (A close look at human behavior. Kevin Spacey is
wonderful. Beautiful cinematography.)
American History X (Scary & very real. This is how hatred
As Good As It Gets (dream role for Jack Nicholson. Outrageously
funny and a touching story.)
Avatar in 3-D. Awesome. Great cgi and a message. Never thought that
I'd have the hots for a cgi character!
Big Daddy (Kid is soooo cute. A nice surprise, for an Adam Sandler
Bound (Homage to Alfred Hitchcock. Visually appealing.
D.A.R.Y.L. - A boy, created with artificial intelligence, strives
for a real life, and to escape the military, which wants him
destroyed. How do we define life and how does that define us? 1985.
Mary Beth Hurt, Barret Oliver.
Flawless - Robert DeNiro plays a homophobic cop who gets speech
therapy from a drag queen! (Philip Seymour Hoffman). 1999.
Forrest Gump - Watch this once a year to remind yourself what
goodness and decency look like.
Get Real - (High School British style. All about love and
God's & Monsters - (See it if only to watch Brendan Fraser (in
a serious role). Damn the American censors for cutting out the full
nudity! It would have been justified.)
In & Out - (a perfect little gem. Funny!!)
Lars and the Real Girl
Limitless - Starring Bradley Cooper. Sudden super intelligence. I
love this kind of film. Latest variation: Lucy.
Powder (really has something to say about humanity. Leaves me
feeling something special every time I watch it. Do NOT watch the
Sixth Sense - (Intriguing. Another kid who can really act.)
Slumdog Millionaire - (A peek inside another culture, and a
gripping story. I love India.)
Trainspotting - (The best drug/anti-drug movie ever. Perfect
Twin Falls Idaho - (A very, very tender and unusual love-story.
Written by, produced by, and starring Mark and Michael
Wizard of Oz - (No contest)
Worst Movies I have ever seen:
Blair Witch Project - ("The Bouncing Camera Project". Decision not
to give actors a script was a big fucking mistake, to use the
most-repeated word in the movie. If this movie actually scares you,
you're either way too sheltered or a lame-brain.)
Eraserhead - (Boring beyond belief!) Wear a watch. You'll need
something to look at.
Tree of Life. - (WTF!)
Listen to music a lot more since I got my iTouch and iPhone! I tend
to like pop songs with a piano in the background. Cross many
genres- I buy "singles", not whole albums.
Love Indian food. Shrimp and fish. I eat just about anything if
it's good food. I eat rather simply mainly because I'm avoiding the
crap that corporations fill the market with; and because I don't
have the time to cook elaborate dishes most of the time. I'm good
at baking (I'm from the Midwest!).
The Blacklist; True Blood; Bill Maher; Under the Sun; HGTV; Oprah's
Super Soul Sunday, The Middle; Justified; Tosh.0; Glee; Downton
Abbey; So You Think You Can Dance! (Never thought that I would like
a dance show, but it's great!) Rarely watch the news. What for?
It's so negative.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends & strangers (I love people), cameras, dark chocolate,
love, books, plants/nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. Mankind guarantees that it is going to be a wild ride!
Hang on kids!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing alone, or with friends over dinner. Or shopping, perhaps.
Or bumming around the East Village. Or looking for someone on the
street to photograph.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a very open person. The ego rarely shows itself.
The produce drawer in my refrigerator is stuffed with dark
You should message me if
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you think i'd be fun to hang with or there's a possibility for
something more. I love guys with dark hair; handsome and a little
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