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My self-summary
eats snacks
has cats
does crafts
takes naps
can fly
makes pies
that's a perfect summary if you ask me but probably doesn't help you, so here's some more stuff:

I'm a calm but no nonsense type of lady. Independent, observant and intuitive, warm but sharp witted. Punctual, tough cookie, delicate flower. Affectionate and caring. sometimes contemplative, sometimes playful, always sarcastic, forever a little weird.
I love water, (pisces to a t). I also love: Flying trapeze. People who create, be it with their hands, words, music, etc. Honesty. Human warmth. Blankets. Human warmth and blankets together. Spontaneously day trips. Walking/talking. Driving/singing. learning whatever I can wherever I can.

things I don't like:
entitlement, dishonesty, mushrooms, lack of humor, unaffectionate people. My biggest pet peeves are people disrespecting each other's time and/or invalidating others feelings.

I'm not into serial dating. This is a personal preference, not a judgment.
If that is what works for you, you will be happier approaching someone else.
What I’m doing with my life
Keeping my head above the water and trying to enjoy the swim. Learning, always. If it's not winter, flying trapeze class as much as possible. (If it's winter, wishing philly had an indoor trapeze school, where my small business investors at?). Always looking places to explore, new things to see. Seeking a career in animal hugging.
I’m really good at
a smattering of things that aren't this. using words like smattering.
Observing/remembering details; storing trivial information. Telling stories. trying to climb things not made for climbing. being gentle while having the sense of humor of a jerk, being patient while still refusing to take shit. Motorcycle passengering. Painting things. being upside down. spotting animals in windows. dick jokes/innuendo. spoonerisms. analyzing. also alliteration.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
breakfast foods. Desserts. Desserts disguises as breakfast food.
I still love sunny day real estate like its 1994. I still listen to the low end theory like its 1991. My favorite album of 2015 was the screaming females-rose mountain.
Give me all your educational TV.
The six things I could never do without
human contact
ice cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why do some who say they want a "real/serious relationship" refuse to make the efforts required to have one? (Or, perhaps, not realize any effort is necessary.) Does any human being put the same value on communication that I do?
Why can't I have as many donuts as I want whenever I want?
Why can't I stop thinking? What's for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
"You know the typical crowd, Wow, it’s Friday night, what are you going to do? Just sit there? Well, yeah. Because there’s nothing out there. It’s stupidity. Stupid people mingling with stupid people. Let them stupidify themselves. I’ve never been bothered with the need to rush out into the night." - bukowski

Ok, I don't dislike going out. But I do think there's a lot of value in being happy "just sitting there" with someone. I want both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This is one bleak and disappointing place, but I don't want to close doors to opportunity.
You should message me if
Know who you are and what you want out of a relationship and can be up front about it. Understand the importance of communicating. Are confident without a massive ego. Have a warm heart; can give and receive affection. Are hilarious, slightly ridiculous, creative, and don't equate constant drinking to a healthy social life.