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42 Hilo, HI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 18
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'd like a deep spiritual connection with someone. Someone who doesn't feel like they need to dominate a conversation, someone who's humble and isn't controlled by their ego. That is very difficult to find because most people are completely identified with their egos. I am not seeking someone else because that would imply that I'm not complete in myself. Nonetheless, I am open to a deep connection with someone else. Foremost I am on a quest for spiritual awakening.

I enjoy running, hiking, camping, and am interested in nutrition and philosophy. I'm working on playing the guitar better. I regularly strive to become a better listener. I consider myself spiritual but not religious.

Some great quotes:

"Just look at us. Everything is backwards; everything is upside down. Doctors destroy health, lawyers destroy justice, universities destroy knowledge, governments destroy freedom, the major media destroy information and religions destroy spirituality" - Michael Ellner

"Until he has unconditional and unbiased love for all beings, man will not find peace."

"Believe nothing no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and common sense."

"You only lose what you cling to."

"You have no cause for anything but gratitude and joy."

"What you are is what you have been. What you'll be is what you do now."

"Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule."

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."

"Always be mindful of the kindness and not the faults of others."

"Life is so very difficult. How can we be anything but kind."

"Every human being is the author of his own health or disease."

"Your body is precious. It is our vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care."

"Love is the solution for everything."
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring, learning, thinking about where my next adventure will be. When I have enough money saved, I want to buy some land, grow fruit trees and start a permaculture food forest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting to laugh. Many people open up to me and tell me very personal things, only a few minutes after meeting them. I'm often the person who is just there for someone who needs to get a load off their chest. I'm not pushy about my beliefs or opinions because I know everyone is on their own path. I try my best not to be judgmental... best to just accept people how they are.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My calm energy and ability to put people at ease. Also my dreads and vibrams.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Anything that explores the nature of humanity or ways to create abundance and happiness. I'm very interested in spiritual awakening... The Magic of Awareness, Algeny, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, The Green Revolution, Cat's Cradle, self improvement books, some sci-fi. Books about Buddhism, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra, A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle, Autobiography of a Yogi. I really enjoy listening to Adyashanti

Movies - Psychological thrillers, mysteries, romance, plot twists. Movies that make you think, and movies with anti-war themes. The Matrix, Vanilla Sky, Jakob's Ladder, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Eyes Wide Shut, 12 Monkeys, Momento, Moulin Rouge, Total Recall, Barry Lyndon, Zero Effect, Intersection, The Notebook, Berkeley, Born on the 4th Of July, Seven Years in Tibet

Music - Carbon Leaf,John Frusciante,Screaming Trees,Mark Lanegan,Pink Floyd,The Beatles,The Rolling Stones,The Moody Blues,Jethro Tull, Led Zeppelin,Neil Young, The Beta Band, Pinback, Andrew Bird,Soundgarden,Chris Cornell,Alice In Chains,Jerry Cantrell,Pearl Jam,Nirvana,Stone Temple Pilots, Grateful Dead, Phish,Jimi Hendrix, Cat Stevens,Fleetwood Mac,Jefferson Airplane, The Byrds,Morphine, Black Crowes, Counting Crows, Sunny Day Real Estate, The Fire Theft, Jeremy Enigk,Radiohead,Rush, Live, Ataxia + many others. I love psychedelic rock

Food - Vegan. Indian and Mexican are my favorite, but I like all ethnic food. I enjoy cooking, but I usually just keep it simple. I also like making big salads with lots of avocado and tomatoes. I love fruit... especially durian, cherimoya, persimmons, mangoes, avocados, oranges, jackfruit, cherries, peaches, longans, papaya and lilikoi to name just a few.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature, friends, fresh fruit, peace of mind, sleep and love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i'm going to go from here to my ideal world. what i should do with my life. why am i here? you know, basic philosophical questions that humanity has struggled with for millenia.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends, sometimes going out to a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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maybe if i get to know you better, i'll whisper it in your ear.
You should message me if
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you'd like to meet someone unique. you enjoy intelligent conversation, you like to laugh. you're laid back, positive and don't sweat the little things. thank you for reading this far! :)