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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 17
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Working on Space camp
Has kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Bookish redhead seeks interesting, sturdy man for entertainment and romantic hijinks or deep and meaningful short term relationship. Must like big books, big bottoms, meditation and drugs.

I’m currently studying English and spend a great deal of time reading, researching and writing about literature. Music is also a big part of my life, much to my neighbours’ chagrin… I want to go to more gigs mainly blues, indie, rock, folk... Lately I've been listening to old hip hop and rediscovering drum and bass but actually I’ll listen to most things and often go to afternoon classical music recitals and listen to NWA on the way home.
Theatre, stand up and pretentious films, as well as getting leathered and lost in a foreign corner of London, all appeal to me (I draw the line at Zone 3 however…)

So there. I’m a mixed bag: intellectual and uncouth, cynical as well as trusting, decorous and dirty in equal measure and all I’m looking for is someone to hang out with.

Edit: Now finished at Uni so am free for summer of splendour and romance. Hurrah.
Oh, also, I recently cut a lot of my hair off so I look a bit different than those pictures. I should replace the pictures but I can't really be bothered. Sorry about that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Falling off bikes at relatively low speeds.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Perhaps not really good but certainly competent or moderately good at writing, drawing, painting, sculpture, photography, cooking, gardening, looking after people and choosing excellent presents.
I'm woefully inadequate at baking, singing, running, wearing high heels, learning languages, advanced mathematics and doing as I'm told.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My tits...
Of course not, it's my aura
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm not answering this questions and if you answer it I probably won't read your answer. I will scan it at best. I find these conversations are only ever illuminating when you can see your interlocutor's eyes light up or their speech become more animated when they tell you about it. That's far more interesting than a list and you get a much better understanding of what people like and why it gets to them that way. That's much more edifying than just examining a list of books they've read or films they've seen.
So I won't fill this part out on principle...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could do without things...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Running things
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been known to watch Extreme Makeover: Home Edition. That's right. I sometimes feel a little bit teary too. And what?
I can also spend several hours watching back to back episodes of How It's Made.

And I get very cold feet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like to go for a tea or coffee and judge each other.
I prefer to do these screening dates on weekdays as that is most convenient for my student lifestyle, progressing to drinks or dinner if we find each other's company agreeable.

Please do not message me if your politics are of the right wing, not because I'm a left wing fundamentalist but because I doubt I will like you very much if you are of that political persuasion.