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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:31pm
White, Other
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
• I consider myself imperfect, liberal, grounded, fluid, curious, and a minimalist.

• I try never to be arrogant, greedy, religious, fake or ungrateful.

• I do not deal well with authority, hypocrisy, vanity, or mediocrity.

• I didn't claim intelligence, humor, or honesty because all three are subjective. My humor might not be your cup of tea, my intelligence might be irrelevant in your reality, and my honesty might be less blunt than yours.

• INTP, if that means anything to you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
• Ideas & alternate realities.

• If ignorance is bliss, is knowledge misery?
• Why expectations are so toxic?
• Why the more you know, the less you understand?

• About myself, life, people, and the human condition.
• About causes & their effects.
• About the Universe, and the joke behind it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• Solving problems.
• Fixing things.
• Thinking myself into the ground.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
• That time slows down around me.
• Is that I bend space. Honestly, I do. So do you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books, movies, shows, music, and food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can live without pretty much anything, but if I didn't have to, screw six, and typecasting all into a "thing":
Food. Ideas. Money. Technology. Cooking. Cookware. Cleaning. Film. Photography. Science. Physics. Family. Friends. Cats. Death. Food. Rain. Cold water. Hot Sauces. Bread. Butter. Cheese. More Food. Sharp knives. Spices. Gas stoves. Heavy pans. Hope. Love?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Tomorrow. Ideas. Family. Friends. Food. Purpose. Behavior.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
• At home reading, writing, thinking.
• Cooking, cleaning, & more thinking.
• Making things, refining ideas.
• Once in a while, at dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
None of these are private, but:
• Inflated self opinions make my teeth itch.
• I often miss gray, cold & snow.
• For the most part I am disappointed in my species, as well as yours.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
• Are not seeking perfection. Neither am I. It doesn't exist.
• Are who you are, and don't have a need, or want to change.
• Are patient, loyal, humble, and reasonably logical.
• Are non judgmental, and give people benefit of the doubt.
• Are not comfortable with lies.
• Don't have a pole up your keister.
• Don't just want to date, but want a best friend, and a partner.
• Also find that quite often reality is more interesting than fiction.
• Like to eat, and/or to cook.
• Like gray & rainy days as much as bright & sunny ones.
• Want the Kardashians to vaporize.
• Want to drive the Nürburgring.
• Want a home cooked meal.
• Want something fixed
• Want a problem solved.
• Want a cookie.