57 Bradford, UK
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My self-summary
Love the arts - music, art, cinema, literature, food and wine. All the good things in life, but, then again, none of us like the bad things do we?

Hobbies include keeping fit - walking, working out, swimming. I enjoy travel, good food and nice wine and love cooking (for the right person!). I am sensitive, sensuous and have a good, sometimes acerbic sense of humour. I am clean, well-groomed (if casual!), trustworthy and happy in my own space. I won't dwell on my shortcomings, but allow you to see and judge!

I believe in complete honesty, so I'm not looking for a life partner, but I'm not a swinger either and prefer to have my adventures with one special friend. So, if you're also happy in your own skin and want someone for occasional little explorations and adventures and to perhaps push some boundaries that have needed a shove for a while, drop me a line, you just never know!
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a manager for a charity and promoting live music, which is all great, but can always make a little time for some fun with someone unconventional, or nice, or interesting, or odd, or sexy, or a combination of all of the above.
I’m really good at
Filling in profiles. Well at least practising. Not a bad cook. Reading - yes, I can read. There are a few other things, but they're not springing to mind at the moment, or it's before the watershed.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm there, apparently sane and fully clothed. Unless I'm in the shower. In which case, if I didn't know you and you weren't invited, I'd be wondering why you were there. However, you could make yourself useful by doing my back. I'm used to dealing with difficult situations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many to even think of right now, but love Le Carre, Rankin, modern and classic films. Music, you'll have to ask me about, could be considered esoteric by some! Chris Wood; Richard Thompson; Eliza Gilkyson; Robert Ellis; Jim Moray; Richard Shendell; Carrie Rodriguez - the list goes on......and on....
Food: Italian, South Asian, British, anything prepared with some love and skill
The six things I could never do without
Oxygen, water, shelter, health, sanity and shortbread biscuits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why so many drivers travel at 65mph in the middle lane of the motorway?; socks - why do twin black ones end up with their own distinct identities?; life and the universe
On a typical Friday night I am
At the cinema, a gig or at home with a book, some music and a glass of wine
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't feel that I have to 'admit' to anything. Just ask...!
You should message me if
You consider yourself an attractive, adventurous spirit with a good sense of humour, who shares at least some of my interests but not necessarily my opinions. Someone who is happy with themselves and not looking for marriage or life partner. Someone who is fun to be with, stimulating and sensuous.