Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Love the arts - music, art, cinema, literature, food and wine. All
the good things in life, but, then again, none of us like the bad
things do we?
Hobbies include keeping fit - walking, working out, swimming. I
enjoy travel, good food and nice wine and love cooking (for the
right person!). I am sensitive, sensuous and have a good, sometimes
acerbic sense of humour. I am clean, well-groomed (if casual!),
trustworthy and happy in my own space. I won't dwell on my
shortcomings, but allow you to see and judge!
I believe in complete honesty, so I'm not looking for a life
partner, but I'm not a swinger either and prefer to have my
adventures with one special friend. So, if you're also happy in
your own skin and want someone for occasional little explorations
and adventures and to perhaps push some boundaries that have needed
a shove for a while, drop me a line, you just never know!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as a manager for a charity and promoting live music, which
is all great, but can always make a little time for some fun with
someone unconventional, or nice, or interesting, or odd, or sexy,
or a combination of all of the above.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Filling in profiles. Well at least practising. Not a bad cook.
Reading - yes, I can read. There are a few other things, but
they're not springing to mind at the moment, or it's before the
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm there, apparently sane and fully clothed. Unless I'm in
the shower. In which case, if I didn't know you and you weren't
invited, I'd be wondering why you were there. However, you could
make yourself useful by doing my back. I'm used to dealing with
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many to even think of right now, but love Le Carre, Rankin,
modern and classic films. Music, you'll have to ask me about, could
be considered esoteric by some! Chris Wood; Richard Thompson; Eliza
Gilkyson; Robert Ellis; Jim Moray; Richard Shendell; Carrie
Rodriguez - the list goes on......and on....
Food: Italian, South Asian, British, anything prepared with some
love and skill
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxygen, water, shelter, health, sanity and shortbread biscuits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why so many drivers travel at 65mph in the middle lane of the
motorway?; socks - why do twin black ones end up with their own
distinct identities?; life and the universe
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the cinema, a gig or at home with a book, some music and a glass
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't feel that I have to 'admit' to anything. Just ask...!
You should message me if
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You consider yourself an attractive, adventurous spirit with a good
sense of humour, who shares at least some of my interests but not
necessarily my opinions. Someone who is happy with themselves and
not looking for marriage or life partner. Someone who is fun to be
with, stimulating and sensuous.
Who are you looking for?
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