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lancemerri911

45 M Somerville, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Native American
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
My philosophy for having a HEALTHY relationship:
You MUST have the following:
1) Mutual Respect
2) 110% open, HONEST, non-judgmental communication
3) Trust
4) Friendship (not just a friendship... your significant other should be your PRIMARY best friend. PERIOD!)
If ANY one of those elements are missing... then your relationship is destined to fail.

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"If you judge a book by its cover, you may miss out on an amazing story."
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I have dated women of all races / nationalities... I do not have any racial issues or hang-ups. You should be with whoever you are attracted to and who makes you happy.

I am 6'3" tall
240 pounds
Hazel Eyes
Shaved head
1 tattoo... I might get one more...I just haven't decided on what to get or who to do it yet.
I am part Seminole Indian (father's side) and Apache Indian (mother's side) and black

I am an educated man and consider myself to be pretty intelligent. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh.

I say what I mean and I mean what I say.

My kids are grown and gone... I'm open to possibly having another...but it is not mandatory.

I am pretty good in the kitchen. I am far from being a chef... but I sometimes like to experiment when time allows.

I listen to just about all types of music and would LOVE to learn to dance Salsa. I would like to re-learn spanish because a lot of my photography clients are spanish speaking.

I am looking for a relationship in which we can be each others equal. I am looking to have an HONEST connection with someone. I am looking for a best friend (because that's where a lasting relationship begins). If you smoke...occasional smoking is fine... but don't be offended when I ask you "soooo...when are you going to quit?". I quit years ago... and now after seeing the new smoking commercials on tv... I'm so glad I did!

Just ask a question and I'll be glad to answer it. NO TIME FOR GAMES!!! I'm not here to waste my time, or yours.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a sales supervisor and also have my own photography business.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my eyes and my bald head. I am taller than most people that I come into contact.
The six things I could never do without
* Breath in my lungs.
* My computer
* My phone
* My camera
* My open mindedness
* My ambition to succeed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Living life... taking it one day at a time and trying to remain as humble as possible, being thankful for the little things that have come my way thus far.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Get to know me, and you'll find out
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating