Narcissists need not respond (but then, if you are one, you probably don't know that..haha..)
I'm lighthearted and yet passionate about many things and don't take myself all that seriously. I've lived around the country and love the Pacific NW but not fond of the passive aggressiveness that is rampant here. Being direct is always good, but without the bite of malice.
If you comprehend the notion that "Everything In Life is A Mirror", then we certainly share a similar starting point.