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51 M Seattle, WA

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
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Buddhism, and laughing about it
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Has kids

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My self-summary
I like smart and fun and sexy and comfortable in your own skin. I'll be adding photos and additional narrative as time passes. Interesting to me that OKC seems to be the default du jour of the online dating scene with immigrants from other sites.
Narcissists need not respond (but then, if you are one, you probably don't know that..haha..)
I'm lighthearted and yet passionate about many things and don't take myself all that seriously. I've lived around the country and love the Pacific NW but not fond of the passive aggressiveness that is rampant here. Being direct is always good, but without the bite of malice.
If you comprehend the notion that "Everything In Life is A Mirror", then we certainly share a similar starting point.
What I’m doing with my life
Living a busy life between work (tech) and play. I stay fit without being obsessively so. I can completely content with my own company and ideally any woman I spend time with has her own mojo that enthralls her and entertains those around her as well.
I’m really good at
Ideas, consciously creative living, random sampling of varieties of music, meditation, being present and awake in this world (that sometimes takes practice), not living in fear.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, swimmer's build, easy laughter, warmth, ENFP-ness, along with energy. If you believe that we share an energetic plane, chakra-based connection, we probably have something to talk about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: anything by Eckhard Tolle, The Four Agreements, Untethered Soul by Michael Singer (read it, it will change your life). Not a big TV watcher...Music, wide range.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee, relevance, kindness, sex(sensuality, eroticism, it all blends into one for me), my kids (older and away from home), exercise, mindfulness (I was never good at painting between the lines)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much fear paralyzes people and determined not to live that way now. Life is brief, n'est pas?
I'm a pretty conscious and awake human being. Soulfulness and sexuality are not mutually exclusive.
Most people are locked in their psyche and suffer internally, repeating the same outcomes in their lives over and over.
For some reason, I tend to attract bi women, not that I am going to badger you to arrange something with your women friends, just that if you're bi, you have an inherent awareness of yourself within, as do I.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hmmm, that will require some cogitation and reflection. Better shared once we chat and get to know each other.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're whipsmart, confident but have a soulfulness and sense of play that goes along with it. That is a rare combination.