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languidly

49 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I like smart and fun and sexy and comfortable in your own skin. I'll be adding photos and additional narrative as time passes. Interesting to me that OKC seems to be the default du jour of the online dating scene with immigrants from other sites.
Narcissists need not respond (but then, if you are one, you probably don't know that..haha..)
I'm lighthearted and yet passionate about many things and don't take myself all that seriously. I've lived around the country and love the Pacific NW but not fond of the passive aggressiveness that is rampant here. Being direct is always good, but without the bite of malice.
If you comprehend the notion that "Everything In Life is A Mirror", then we certainly share a similar starting point.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living a busy life between work (tech) and play. I stay fit without being obsessively so. I can completely content with my own company and ideally any woman I spend time with has her own mojo that enthralls her and entertains those around her as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ideas, consciously creative living, random sampling of varieties of music, meditation, being present and awake in this world (that sometimes takes practice), not living in fear.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, swimmer's build, easy laughter, warmth, ENFP-ness, along with energy. If you believe that we share an energetic plane, chakra-based connection, we probably have something to talk about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: anything by Eckhard Tolle, The Four Agreements, Untethered Soul by Michael Singer (read it, it will change your life). Not a big TV watcher...Music, wide range.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, relevance, kindness, sex(sensuality, eroticism, it all blends into one for me), my kids (older and away from home), exercise, mindfulness (I was never good at painting between the lines)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much fear paralyzes people and determined not to live that way now. Life is brief, n'est pas?
I'm a pretty conscious and awake human being. Soulfulness and sexuality are not mutually exclusive.
Most people are locked in their psyche and suffer internally, repeating the same outcomes in their lives over and over.
For some reason, I tend to attract bi women, not that I am going to badger you to arrange something with your women friends, just that if you're bi, you have an inherent awareness of yourself within, as do I.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmmm, that will require some cogitation and reflection. Better shared once we chat and get to know each other.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're whipsmart, confident but have a soulfulness and sense of play that goes along with it. That is a rare combination.