45 San Jose, CA
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My self-summary
I'm seeing a great woman now but we have an open relationship. We're very selective about our sexual partners because we can be. Smart, fit, honest, and open are a must. Funny is guaranteed to get a reply.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising two fantastic daughters and working my ass off. I play music when I can and am looking forward to a vacation one day...
I’m really good at
Laughing and making people laugh. Also I'm a pretty decent woodworker, musician, kisser of all sorts of body parts, and I actually am a pretty good dad, or so I hear.
The first things people usually notice about me
Ok I'm told my smile, my hair, and that I'm nice (so says my youngest but I think she may be right :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Usually not what's on the bestseller list. My tastes range widely. Cormac McCarthy's stuff is great, Cutting for Stone was pretty good, enjoy a well-written anything but lately I'm seeking anything escapist. Life is real enough without submersing myself in more of it in my downtime.
Music: Jazz, Rock, Classical, Electronica, Rap, blahblahblah. There's too much to mention.
Movies: I like them.
Food: I like it, too. No organ meats, though. Really: Gross, somehow moreso than the musculature I have zero problem with.
The six things I could never do without
My family
Good food
An engaging challenge
A good story
My hands
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My kids, music, work, taking a vacation. Doing the right thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
On my weekends with my kids: Putting them to bed, watching a movie or reading, maybe. On my weekends w/o them, no idea, maybe playing guitar, reading, watching a movie, seeing a live show.
You should message me if
You're funny. You're kind. You love sex and are really really good at it, can get kinky but it's not the only way you operate in bed. You don't mind the idea of a relationship with a bisexual guy who's seeing someone else. You're interesting. You read. You know how to give a seriously good backscratch. You like to receive a seriously good backscratch in lieu of a massage. You're not nuts. If you're really hot, well, that's a nice bonus :).