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43 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Since we're wasting no time getting existential here ... okay, I'll bite: I'm tall and thin and wrapped in skin. Raised in the northeast, went from the womb straight to college (amazing, I know) ... migrated to SF, then settled in NYC. Got a couple of masters degrees (American History + Journalism) while playing editor/writer/photographer for a plethora of magazines (remember them?). Helped start a community newspaper on the West Side of Manhattan before working for WNYC, etc.

Have had a nice ride...though truth be told, I remember this place before the "Sex in the City" / Louis Vuitton-handbag crowd colonized Downtown. Funny how we become nostalgic for the drug-dealers, squatters and transvestites ...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Jounalist-turned-communications director: Writing. Photographing. Searching for great documentaries. Playing music (drums). Getting to the beach. Yoga. Hiking/camping. Searching for great food/wine pairings and well-made Old-Fashioneds/Negronis/Vieux Carrées.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge. a writer and former copy editor, I possess way too much knowledge of English grammar to ever be considered cool. I'm counting on you to prop me up here.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How curvacious I really am. Va-va-voom!

(And that I make really nice eye contact...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
* Milan Kundera, Italo Calvino, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, David Foster Wallace, Oscar Wilde, etc.
* Wes Anderson, Jim Jarmusch, Wayne Wang, documentaries, et al.
* 30 Rock, Arrested Development, the storied HBO/AMC dramas...
* This is opening a can of worms: I'll show you my music collection if you show me yours...
* Truffle pasta at Bar Piti, make-your-own falafel, lemon zest, avocados, Turkish lahmacun, street-stall pad thai
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Which pasta will I be lovingly dipping my fork tines into this Monday eve at Osteria Morini.

How to get from conception to finished product...or metaphorically speaking, from my bedroom to the bathroom.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You're good with a mature, ongoing Friends With Benefits arrangement—whether you're single or in an open relationship—since I'm recently divorced, have a tight schedule, and am needing a breather right now from anything more committed or serious.

- Note the diction above: "mature" & "ongoing" ... that would be ideal...but shorter-term can also would group play in all configurations.

- You enjoy self-confidence, dry humor, warmth and intelligence
- You possess all of the above
- You're thin/lithe/sexy ... not to mention creative, interesting and passionate about what you do
- You enjoy being seduced by a luscious home-cooked meal, a glass of wine, a nice cocktail, and/or dark chocolate & strawberries (and you) for dessert.