Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello everyone, I was born in Brazil but I currently live in
Westmont which is in the West Suburbs from Chicago. I'm very
sociable, not shy on trying new things, and very patient. I'm
looking for someone that is open minded, has their priorities
straightened out, has common sense, and someone that can have/make
conversations at a moments notice so there won't be that awkward
I like having both a silly conversation but also someone that is
very intellectual to be able to be witty and sarcastic. I like
weird dark humor at times and I can say things that makes me have
that feeling "I can't believe I said that out loud", but that what
makes conversations fun. Being random and make spontaneous
decisions always makes things in life more interesting and I have
less regrets in doing so.
I also tend to be wordy so I may need to have a filter to make me
stop talking at times. When in public, I don't mind making a fool
out of myself to make a memorable event with anyone. I like being
the black sheep of several events so I can be remembered as the guy
that wants to enjoy the party and live it, not just go with the
I have much to say about views in life, relationships, what to do
for fun, goals, etc... However I like to keep it simple so I don't
over indulge myself with additional stress that can be easily
Please keep in mind that I'm in an open relationship (with a girl
that I love and would never replace) and do practice polyamory.
However, I'm not looking just for a one-night stand/booty call. I'm
actually looking to find people to make connections with so it can
be either platonic and/or intimate relationship. So if you have an
open mind and not afraid to share any information, then I believe
that we can be a good match and/or friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a coach for a winterguard/colorguard program in a public
high school in Chicago, and also attending school to become a
mathematics teacher. Eventually I do want to own my own business so
I can relax and have my own hours, but for now I plan to work hard
to make a living and be financially stable.
When I'm not working I like to socialize with as many people I meet
to make new friends since I just recently moved in the Chicago
Region. I like finding hidden gems such as "hole in the wall" or
"dives" spots, bar hop, play sports, go on random walks, look for
an adventure, and on occasion have a lazy day to just lay down on
my bed and watch random movies. I also like to travel by car, have
spontaneous trips, be at peace with myself, and also discover new
casual locations to hang out at.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have many hobbies to list. However, to name a few, I'm a big
anime/cosplay junkie, big soccer fan (during World Cup I become a
hermit), volleyball, colorguard and winterguard fanatic, love going
to concerts, enjoying nature, computers, video games, old retro
geek items/movies (Monty Python are one of my fondness of the old
school), travelling, long walks, and I also used to perform in a
jazz and ska band a few years ago because I also play the trombone.
These are just some (to name a few) of my hobbies.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and my accent. I have deep green eyes with a hint of blue
and hazel and my Brazilian accent (which also has merged with the
South Florida/Miami region accent) so people think I come from some
European country. most always guess that I'm either English or
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a post-modern geek, which means I love sci-fi movies. I'm also
into action movies and I can also be a sucker for some sensitive
movies. Comedy is always my favorite genre so when it comes to
movies and tv shows, I tend to stick with Family Guy, The Simpsons,
Aqua Teen, Regular Show, Adventure Time, Dexter, Veep, Games of
Thrones, Doctor Who, and many more. I'm also an old school comedy
and I like the Monty Python series and Mr. Bean.
When it comes to books and/or literature, I always love to read
books written by Brad Meltzer for he writes some great conspiracy
novels. I am a fan of the Harry Potter series but reading material
that is more "real world" interests me more.
I'm multi-musical so most genres of music interests my perks. Since
I'm a guard coach, music is in my blood. I have an ear to pick up
good music and I'm very open to new music ideas. I also used to
play in a jazz band where my instrument of choice was the trombone
(however I also play many other instruments).
As for food, I may be picky many time. When I do open up my tastes
for new foods, I stay away from pork. Aside from that, I'm
perfectly fine in that category.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It is hard to list each item but I believe in non material items,
but instead, more on knowledge and experience. Those would be
categorized in the following:
Companions (friends and/or more)
Sense of adventure
Scientific approach to life
Accepting humility (otherwise you may never learn anything)
Not being stubborn
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Should I eat at Chipotle today?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either coming home from work or getting together with a few friends
to hang out and have fun to escape from reality for a while.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a poly person and a fellow kinkster. No, that doesn't mean that
I'm a one night lay (as I have mentioned before). I'd prefer to get
to know the person before we even cross that bridge. Please message
me if you want me to elaborate instead of making assumptions.
You should message me if
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Looking for a new friend to chill with (I don't care if you're a
guy, girl, gay, straight, bi, etc...) so we can hang out from time
to time, or finding someone to give you a small fresh breath of the
current reality you're in.
I prefer finding good quality friends first before anything. If I
meet a great girl and things grow from there, I let it come as it
does. I never rush anything because I believe that everything that
is presented to you is an opportunity to embrace new chances in
life. Hopefully I can find my ideal date through here as well.
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