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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
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Last online
Yesterday – 6:59pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish
My self-summary
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4/16/15- I was in a relationship for a year and a half. I feel a bit shy, to be honest... Lol...
Below is what my profile used to say. I didn't realize that reactivating my account would restore what it used to have. I guess that's pretty cool.

Anyway, for now, you can get an idea of what I'm like from my old bio below. I work over 61 hours a week. It's draining me just writing this. Lol. It's 3am. The only reason I'm so wide awake is cause I just finished playing ball so my adrenaline is still up.

(A copy-and-paste right off my PoF account)


6/7/13- I just wrote a ton about myself and it didn't save for some reason. I'm tight right now!

I'll be brief for now.
I used to go by "Mindsex31281", but deleted that account because I was beginning to realize that most women don't know Mind Sex is a song about mental stimulation, not sex.

I'm big on respect and a woman who acts on her interest in health and being somewhat fit. I love a woman who knows what she wants and is very straightforward. I find that very attractive. I don't think it's too reasonable to X out women with children, but I prefer one that I can share my first child experience with.
Ladies, be a bit more humble and sweet. The thirst is everywhere, not just on PoF. A polite compliment should be followed by a thank you at the very least. Please don't assume I'm simple minded because of my shirtless pictures. I post them because, well for one, I worked hard enough to have earned that right, but mostly because I want to give the same impression that I expect- one that indicates exactly what you look like. Some of you want to post 8 beautiful pictures of your face but "forget" that you're not just a face. It definitely makes a difference to know that you have a weight (health) issue. I think we can all agree that one's state of health is a critical factor in dating.
I'm really open to meeting women online, but once we click a little, I'd like to take it to a more personal and convenient means of communication (texting, talking, Kik, video-chatting, etc). Lets face it, if you're halfway decent looking, your inbox is probably flooded, and I don't want to send you a thoughtful message that gets answered 3 days later or ever for that matter.
If you were born a man, please don't message me. It's a dating site and I'm as straight as can be. If you're gay keep it in the gay community. Please respect that. Thanks.
Ummmm... Live alone, no kids, Dominican, if you don't know my name, slap yourself please, I keep fit, I cook, I'm a lover with a little fighter in me, very affectionate and passionate, super-competitive, I love basketball, I still play well, my two older sisters made me an uncle to 6 handsome boys and 3 beautiful girls that range from 16 to a few months.
Ummmmmm.... I enjoy all kinds of music and food, especially seafood. As far as music, I mainly listen to hip hop and r&b, merengue, salsa, and bachata, pop, reggae, and I still love freestyle.
Ummmm... Believe it or not, I don't cheat. I'm actually very against it. Once you got me to the point where I can really see myself long-term with you, and we're mutually committed to one another, I'm all yours and I'm in open book. You have to be super insecure to think I can't be trusted cause I love to be with my girl.
Since I'm on that cheating topic, I'll share my definition of cheating. I don't care what your definition is. It's mine that matters. Lol. Seriously though.
Cheating- doing something that you would not do if your partner was clearly aware of what you're doing.
If you disagree, I'd love to hear you rationalize why.
I've come to the conclusion that if you act like a complete idiot when you drink, for the most part you're an idiot. Know your limit. It's a super turn-off.
Cigarettes? Heeeeeeell no! That sh*t is repulsive to say the least!
Ummmm... Damn! I actually tried to be brief. =/

Well if you read this, that's very nice of you. Thank you. I'm assuming you're somewhat attracted to me, physically. Lol. Please feel free to send me a message and I'll definitely respond. You'll know if I'm interested soon after.

For what it's worth, a typical search for me is "Hispanic, 23-36 (leaning more towards late 20's early 30's), wants to be in a relationship, within 15-20 miles from me." I'm not limited to that but it's a focus.
I don't really limit myself to a body-type because so many beautiful women think they're fat. I'm Dominican. I like a little meat in the right places. :)
But here's a rule of thumb- If you're not comfortable in a bikini, I'm probably not for you.

**UPDATE** 6/20/13- Let me clarify that last line for some of you. I'm attracted to confidence and health/fitness conscious women. If you're a little thicker than you'd like to be but you're aware and doing something about it, that's cool. But if you're thicker than you want to be and you're drinking beer after beer after soda, it's a turn-off. It shows you're careless and unable to lead your children, by example, in the opposite direction of the greatest killer in the country. Dramatic? Only if you're not my type will you be turned off by that, which is perfectly ok. Being fit is pretty important if you ask me, Idk, that's what they say.*********

Hey, you asked for honesty.

With that being said, I'm out. Hit me up! :)
You should message me if
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you believe that respect is absolutely paramount and you're sincere. Regardless of what you and I amount to be, I believe respect and sincerity should never be compromised.