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lashner

29 / M / straight / Single

Kansas City, Missouri

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Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Undeclared
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am awesome, Awesomer, and AWESOMEST.

My Self-Summary

I created a nice list of 100 fact about myself. Here are the 25 of them.

100: I relate to movies like other people relate to music and art.
99: I love my two cats more than most people.
98: I regret never having learned guitar. Never too late…
97: I have had my dream job and lost it. That was two years ago. No job since has been as enjoyable or paid as well. Lesson learned: there are no end-points.
96: Relating/interacting to/with people is one of the most difficult things for me to do. It’s like Dexter, but without so much blood.
95: I will be a good photographer someday.
94: I judge you.
93: I am not a dog person. I don’t dislike them, but I am indifferent to them. Unless it’s a small dog; then I do hate it.
92: I grew up as a semi-only child. My older siblings were out of the house by the time I was 10ish and weren’t around much before that.
91: I had three dogs during my youth: Dog, Puppy, and Pete.
90: There was one cat: a black one named Licorice
89: My first crush was a girl named Mary. I was very young. I still love the name.
88: I don’t have cable or even rabbit ears. I watch any and all TV via the internet. Saves me $720 a year.
87: My secret calling was that of an Astrophysicist followed closely by some type of artist.
86: My mother died when I was 12. Her name was Marsha.
85: I loved and played baseball from T-Ball up until my Sophomore year of H.S. They said I had to cut my hair. I chose the hair.
84: I have had four girlfriends. Only one that was longer than a few months.
83: My first kiss was at 15 on the steps leading up to my first g/f’s bedroom.
82: I listen to all kinds of music, but it has to match my mood or it’s just noise.
81: Henry Rollins is my mentor. If you haven’t read his books or listened to his spoken word then you haven’t lived.
80: I chose staying with my friends instead of skipping 5th grade. I still wonder which was the right choice…
79: I called one grandmother “Grandma Wick” and one “MeMaw”. They have both passed.
78: When I was around 11/12 my parents said I could get a computer or a stereo. I chose computer. Intel 386/33 with a turbo button.
77: I love to cook, but haven’t branched out near enough to call myself a cook. I do make a mean homemade macaroni and cheese. You have to had just a little cream cheese.
76: I love Mt.Dew in a can. I will gorge myself on it until my heart races.
75: I don’t recycle and probably never will unless forced.

You can read the rest of the list here:
http://damionbroadaway.com/post/75173941/100things

What I’m doing with my life

Guitar - Taking lessons once a week. Acoustic and electric.
Krav Maga - Israeli Army Fighting system. I don't start fights or anything. It's just a great workout.
Photography - Just go a new Nikon D40 and a flickr account
Disc Golf - Just played my first game of the season yesterday.
Rock Climbing - been too long
Reading graphic novels (just "found" them) - Need a new one
Being a geek - Always
Enjoying my pool - Summer will be good
Still trying to "find" myself.
Movies - Secretary was awesome
Video games - Gamestop and cheap used games are my friend
Making friends - Trying to stay out of the house as much as possible

I’m really good at

Talking.
Listening.
Watching really bad movies.
Arguing for no reason.
Never being bored.
Advice.
Finding bars with decks.
Being positive.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I look scary. Yes, I'm a big man with a bald head. That doesn't meat I'm going to punch your neck.

I actually smile and laugh a lot.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

:Books
::Trying to listen to audio books at work. Just finished A Briefer History of Time and trying to get through LoTR.
::Anything by Henry Rollins
::Brief History of Time
::The Watchmen
::Wanted

:Movies
::Anything that you would probably hate
::Blues Brothers
::A Clockwork Orange (any Kubrick will do, actually)
::Choke

:Music
::120gig iPod is my friend

:Food
::Everything that's bad for you

The six things I could never do without

My own mind.
Good pair of jeans.
Sunny days (even in Winter).
White cotton v-neck.

Can't think of anything else I would really miss...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

So many things it would make your head spin. I have a busy mind and am always thinking about something.

To a fault.

On a typical Friday night I am

Short answer:
See section about entitled "What I'm doing with my life."

Long answer:
Whatever floats my boat. I could be caught doing anything from setting at home to going to the Power & Light. It really just depends. Having said that, to answer the question of "on a typical Friday night I am..." usually doing something pretty low-key with my group of friends. That's just my slice o' life.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

You can see all my secrets here:

damionbroadaway.com.

That way, they aren't secrets anymore.

You should message me if

1: You don't mind meeting quickly. I find that emails don't really allow people to get to know each other. Something simple like coffee will do just fine. No sense in spending a couple weeks writing and then find out you don't click in person.

2: If you're positive. Nobody likes a Negative Nancy.

C: You can talk. I don't like sitting across from an opinionless wall. I can handle shy; not an empty head. I like to be engaged and hope you do to.

4: You don't take yourself to seriously. When you were born you took a shit in front of a room full of people. Remember that.

5: Any other reason you can think of. I'll write back; I'm that type of guy.