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33 F Clarkston, GA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:54pm
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and wants more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
hello. ;)

name is chicken.

i come from the land of oklahoma... from a diverse, loving, close-knit family of amazing peeps. :)

thank you for coming to see me!

;) i am a songwriter, poet, singer, pianist, artist, spanish teacher, activist, gardener, tantric lover, inspired mother, fast mover, dancer, painter, creator, jewelry-maker, organic, intuitive eater, healer, traveler, hick-spanic, super-productive maniac, clear-thinking heart-centered philosopher, spiritual dreamer, composting recycler, people-hugger, intentional and passionate life-lover.

are you the love of my life? are you the one who will set my heart on fire? who will protect my flame as it dances with you into the night? mmm... just tickles me, as i feel you entering my life! in a way, you are already inside me! just know, i am ready to honor you and excite you for a lifetime! my dear, you will know that you have found me because when you look into my eyes, you will feel my spirit filling the gaps of your mind... moving your hands to hold mine... awaking your soul back to life!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
nursing, feeding, holding, playing with my son? ;)

i teach Spanish in the best middle school of the Greater Atlanta area ;)

i write songs constantly and sing them passionately. i love my instruments and i love creating music even more.

i have a hip hop learning project (been on and off recording an album of funky rap songs to learn Spanish for classrooms everywhere.. could use a lot of help w this, to be honest).

i love conversations about life. my BA is in philosophy. however, i find that i rarely refer to philosophers i studied. i do, on the other hand, value what i learned greatly. i keep asking questions and live through my own answers.

i eat raw vegan organic foods for energy, healing, strength, rejuvenation... i once considered myself a raw foodist. :) i have a great concern for health and wellbeing. i eat organic cheese and well-treated animal meat these days.

i like cuddling in my warm and fuzzy blankets listening to the world outside...

i accomplish things in my dreams.
especially when i sleep late.

sleep late with me..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
eating. :)

creating raw vegan (and low glucose) desserts. mmmmm...

or massaged greens... lentil soups.. cacao pow shakes.. curried grains... cool green teas, fresh lemonades and "flower juice," as my friend likes to say.


being mother.
writing music, songs and poetry. (my favorite thing!!)
encouraging and supporting others in what they are up to.
teaching anything i know.
producing results.
choosing my words w intention.
delicious things.

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
you mean, besides the fact that i have an adorable child in my arms??

my HAIR. i get endless comments about my hair.

i spray ocean in it every day.

i also hear a lot about the way i dress.. "wow i love those colors together" or "only you could pull something like that off" ... (not totally sure what this means) and often "i love those earrings."

then one might notice my silliness, or my passion.. or very possibly that i am speaking in Spanish. (i tend to speak to people in Spanish out in public when they are not expecting it. it usually brings smiles to peoples' faces.. but sometimes it does quite the opposite. oops.)

oh.. also, lately, on okc.. you will notice that i likely don't respond to your email. i am mother of an 8 mo old child and am a full time teacher.. please write me and write me again if you really feel like we will connect. i promise i'll eventually get back to you if you inspire me too. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i would write a list...
i love writing lists.

but i feel like what is important to say here is this:

when it comes to my personality,

i like output.

input is good too,
but i prefer output.

also.. a few things about "my details" to the right:

(some of my answers weren't among their choices)

enthicity: incan hick-spanic :)
body type: petite and just had a baby.
diet: intuitive. often raw vegan+ high protein/low carb
occupation: artist/musical/writer and spanish teacher.
religion: i am learning to pray all day to the One Highest Deepest Being.. i am in love w this Power. i surrender to this Whole Soul.
sign: taurus/gemini
offspring: just had my first, I want to foster and adopt more.
pets: I have a dog and want a bird.

also, ps. i have a problem with the fact that there are only two gender choices and only three sexuality choices above.


ok, ok, fine...

i often listen to music that can be described as ambient, classical, world, funk, trance, new age, for meditation, positive hip hop, binaural beats, singer/songwriter, electronic, nature sounds... and Nine Inch Nails. ;) i love artists/groups like Bjork, CocoRosie, Amanda Palmer, Goldfrapp, Erykah Badu, Jason Webley, TLC, Tosca, Beck, Kudu, Radiohead, Stephane Pompougnac, Typical Cats, Sphongle, Peaches, Imogen Heap, Tori Amos, Morcheeba, Nick Drake, Air, David Bowie, Incubus, Jerry Cantrell, Madonna, Gwen Stefani, and many many more.

i watch a Mexican soap opera.

i read books for information and for spiritual/physical wellness. on occasion, for entertainment... but very rarely.

i watch movies sometimes and forget most of them eventually. i don't know why. i like movies.

i don't know actors names, authors, producers, people or facts you expect me to know. sorry about that. always been one to remember concepts and feelings... but not details.

even with music.. i might be humming a melody i heard before and think i was creating it for the first time ever from my heart.

yep yep. ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
people. especially this lil sweetheart snuggling w me all night long.

the moment: laughter, silence, love, touch, movement, breath, sex, voice, rhythm, melody..

the FIREBALL Universal Power that flows through my human form and all other forms.


abundance: water, plants, trees, air, earth, sunshine, cacao, fresh juice, shea butter, coconut oil, stevia, almonds, quinoa, green tea, organic live food... oh, and my body!

education: the Landmark Forum, the 12 steps, experience, travel, school...

extremely appreciated although could somehow live without: piano, notebooks, pens, internet, paint, towels, blankets, tools, diapers for my son, and milk crates... ;)

notice i did not say clothes. i could easily do without clothes...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my son.

and food.

that was a short and accurate answer.

but if you want to know my view...

i see my thinking as a juke box playing tracks of the past from the file cabinet in my brain based on the stimuli of each moment.
in this sense.. for me, i believe the more appropriate question would be "which stations are usually playing?" and "how loud is it in comparison to your conscious experience?"

so.. it depends how on-purpose my thinking is.

(do you also notice the many levels of thought happening at once?)


the stations that are usually playing?

these days.. the thoughts telling me take my shirt off and feed this baby again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
friday night is "fun night" for me:

it means i do whatever i feel inspired, moved, pulled to do.. each moment.. guilt free.
i might rearrange yet another section of my belongings into rainbow-order.
i might go to bed early and sleep for over 12 hours.
i might cuddle up with a lover and paint her body all kinds of colors.
i might play with my toys.. the keys.. the strings.. the blowing things.
i often write write write.
i often add to my collages and paintings, make photos and drawings.
i often take baths listening to meditative beats.
i often go outside with my dog friend, embrace the earth, hugging her hard with all my heart.
i wear my painting clothes.. and then i change outfits and costumes over and over again.
i make jewelry, wind chimes and "fix things.."
i arrange random objects into categories and find ways to build with them.
i sometimes fall asleep on the floor, with the lights still on, after taking myself to the edge.
and all of this i do with a "clear head," without the use of "substances.."

oh, and especially on fun night, i prefer to pee outside..
it just makes me smile, the warm sweet mist as it rises...


i love fun night.

i am grateful for the person who assigned me the task a while back.. of taking four consecutive hours once each week to have fun guilt-free... it is changing my life.

(this still very much describes me even tho, w a new baby, it no longer describes my Friday nights... will come back to this later.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
nothing private i want to share here...
but i have concerns! yes, i have concerns.

for instance:
even tho I have an outgoing and expressive personality, I am actually shy and introverted. my journey happens within. I am not focused on my surroundings or others the way one might expect. my personality and talents often keep me in the spotlight... this is something i enjoy out of passion, not from the attention. there are other women like this. we can easily be misunderstood.

my fast-paced, high-energy-way-of-being can push some people away. many say it is a unique energy.. so i ask you to please love this passion and talent and intellect that is sometimes off-the-charts silly and loving, intentional and direct (sometimes stressed and impatient and busy). it is not for everyone... but you.. it IS for you!

also, my habits of eating, of praying, and of communicating are very important to me. please be sensitive to this. :)

let's see here.. i suppose we could say the fact that i just had a baby? concern being.. um.. this is probably not the best time for me to be dating... period. ha! :) dating is probably not what i am doing here. but i am here. for something. just be nice, k?

but seriously, there are several private things i would like you to know, but only if you are actually serious about me. so please ask when we are ready for that.

i will share w YOU.

You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
are you my sweetheart?! i have been patiently awaiting you!! (or maybe not so patiently!)

if *all three* of these apply to you:

1. you are ready for long-term love, partnership and family.

2. you express openly and honestly your desires, thoughts, needs, boundaries, fears, concerns... and especially your love.

3. you have a healthy spirit.

like, no kidding, i will not be happy in a relationship with you if those three things are not true about you. no hurt intended, i just know who i need and know that he is out there looking for me too!!

**signs that i look for when considering these: STABILITY. RESPONSIBILITY. AUTHENTICITY. SELF-MOTIVATION. CONFIDENCE. OPENNESS. AFFECTION. SELF-EXPRESSION. DEEP HONESTY. PEACEFULNESS. HAPPINESS. LOVINGNESS. RESPECT. HEALTH. DECISIVENESS. CLARITY. HONOR. INTEGRITY. and no, this is not too much to ask for if YOU are right for ME. thank you for your attention to this. i am looking for you, my love! eager to finally meet you!**


it would be super exciting if:

you love music.
you are open-minded.
you are in touch with your culture.. and your nature.
you love your family.
you are comfortable with yourself.
you are independent.
you love babies.
you love kids.
you are romantic.
you are affectionate.
you are open to polyamorous relationships.
you are talented.
you are passionate.
you have a healthy sex drive.
you know tantra or are open to it.
you are interesting.. and interested.
you are curious. especially about yourself.
you ask questions.
you are full of surprises.
you do not get bored.
you are pansexual or appreciate the use of such a term.
you are literate.
you take care of yourself.
you want to love me. :)
you are positive.
you are encouraging.
you are comforting.
you know who you are.
you are in constant inquiry with yourself.
you know what you want.. what you are committed to.
you like to cuddle.
you are considerate.
you are respectful.
you recycle.
you are efficient with and respectful of time and energy.
you love raw food.
you eat organic.
you hug people hard because it feels so yummy!
you know what im talking about. :)

i recently realized that it might be beneficial to have a "you should NOT message me if" list.

so here it is...

and FYI, some of these criteria are very important, even though i have nothing against people who DO fit these descriptions. i just know what i need in a potential partner to be happy and healthy, and would like to NOT waste our time or create unnecessary hurts. i am healing from things in my life, and i know what i need to continue to feel good.

ok, so... I would prefer that you not message me if:

you are turned off by my "message me if" list.
you say things like "you're gay" as an insult.
you try to convince people to have sex w you.
you have a violent temper.
you call people Mexican just because they speak Spanish (and you are serious).
you get drunk more than once a month (this will not be good for me).
you regularly eat at fast-food restaurants like Burger King and Subway (this will also not be good for me).
you don't throw away your trash.
you laugh when someone gets hurt (am i too sensitive?).
you honk at people when their car breaks down and they are blocking the road.
you are not planning on having a family soon.
you are not open to a polyamorous relationship.
you are passionate about your organized religion.
you are just looking for a good fuck.
you are not similar to me in lifestyle at all, yet want to date me because you think i would make your life better.
you put people in a box.
you don't want to hear what i really think and feel. (i.e. you will likely get defensive if i say something you take as criticism.)
you watch CNN or FOX News for actual news.
you are an addict or alcoholic who has been sober less than 6 months.
you overeat every day.
you are over 20 lbs overweight (no offense.. i love many people dearly, no matter their size. i just already have enough goin on w me and my eating issues).
you prefer to live alone.
you don't like dogs.
you don't exercise.
you are hesitant to email me.
you don't like to kiss in public.
you smoke weed constantly (this will not be good for me, nope nope).
you are full of excuses.
you complain a lot.
you don't read.
you think that sex follows making-out every time.
you rarely go outside.
you don't have a passport and you don't want one.
you don't say anything when you feel upset by something.
you watch TV for hours every day.
you are passive aggressive.
you don't make changes in yourself when you notice things aren't working how you would like them to.

if you read all of this and are smiling... please message me now.

i love people and relationships.. yes, very much.

so i am here.

i do want to build a family.

my heart is open.