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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
My self-summary
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I just celebrated my 15th year of living in New York City and I have to say I love it more every year (who doesn't love the subway during rush hour) I'm a city explorer who is into museums, film, art, theater, music, sports, food, night life, architecture, style, design...I guess you could say I'm a true Renaissance Man (I'll also accept Rain Man)

I'm proud to say I grew up in the midwest (Nebraska, that is) and carry with me the same kind of values. If you need to barrow a cup of sugar you could definitely knock on my door. My parents just celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary and I hope to follow in their footsteps someday (emphasis on the someday, lol).

I'm the middle of three brothers who grew up camping, watching sports, and beating each other up, so I'm definitely in touch with my masculine side. I played high school football and was in a fraternity throughout college and have a lot of straight friends, but at the same time I'm comfortable enough in my own skin and with my sexuality to own my feminine side too.

I'm driven and career oriented and have a lot of passion for what I do, but I know how to relax and let my hair down and understand the benefit of having friends and a life outside of my chosen profession.

I'm really into positive energy and believe that you get back the energy that you give out. I'm also into living a truthful life where I hold myself accountable for my own actions (Never too late to say you are sorry)

I've been told I have my wits about me, which I'm 85% sure is a compliment. Witty banter and sarcasm are appreciated by me and I have a soft spot for a guy who can make fun of himself...a little self deprecating sense of humor can be sexy.

I'll kick your butt on the racquetball court and welcome some heathy competition on any sports court/field.....just know I'm embarrassing with a basketball, lol, I'm talking Elaine dancing on Seinfeld embarrassing. If you know who Michael Chang is you have seriously scored points.....lots of them.

I'm looking for guy who has passion in his life...about what he does, or a hobby he has, or for life in general. He doesn't have to have the body of a superhero or be a neurosurgeon, but he does have to be present in our relationship, a listener, a glass is half full kind of guy, able to crack a joke or say something witty, inquisitive and open to new things and ideas, able to give and receive love, considerate, out and proud, confident, honest, and a good communicator, and i must admit a killer smile doesnt hurt.....I will try my best be all those things in return.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm on the creative path, specifically the theater. I am the head artistic associate of a theater production company as well as a theater director for plays and musicals....I also always have a side job...right now it's bar tending at the Hammerstein Ballroom. Come see a show, ill slide you a free booze.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend! My friends are my family. I'm a listener who is good at keeping people excited about their lives. I love to see people do well and succeed. I make a damn good cup of French press coffee too. Mmm, French press coffee.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair...what can i say, the proteins in my body are HEALTHY. My positivity is noticed a lot too. I like to think and act on the bright side of things. My smile gets a lot of compliments and hey, i got a nice's okay you can look at it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Alienist is my fav book....think CSI in 1800's New York City.....also Freedom (Franzen) Faggots (Kramer) The Kite Runner, anything Jane Austen, Heartbreaking Work of a Staggering Genius, Middlesex, The Art if Fielding, the Adventures of Kaliver and Clay...nothing like a good book!

I love Oscar Worthy Movies.....My fav of all time is American Beauty. I love spanish films too....All About My Mother. Teen movies from the 80's are on my guilty pleasure list....bueller, faris bueller, anybody? This year my best goes to the sessions.

My music taste is eclectic... Washed Out, Fleet Foxes, Panda Bear, Dirty Projectors, tanlines, andrew bird, the divine fits, the presets, lord huron, first aid kit, alabama shakes, bat for lashes, local natives, The shins, ra ra riot, msmr, yeah yeah yeahs, jeff Buckley will always be a virtuoso to a good new music find.

I am addicted to sushi....Love it! I have a sweet tooth, billy's bakery...nuff said. I dig all kinds of different foods....from bbq to thai...ever been to Momofuku?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. singing....i've been doing it since i was 6, its how a vent

2. College Football....Go Cornhuskers!!!!

3. New York City....couldn't live anywhere else

4. My family....we're close....i talk to my dad like three times a week

5.The Theater, it's writers directors designers composers chorographers.....they all inspire me

6. My best friend, we've been best friends since third grade
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my career, my future family, my friends.......where i want to be with all those things in ten years... Oh yeah, and how they got the ship in that bottle.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing a variety of things, seeing a broadway show, getting a drink in midtown, singing karaoke on St. Marks Street, dancing at WESTGAY or Dimaond Horeshoe, going to the free night at the MOMA, seeing live music somewhere, sitting at home with a movie and piece of pizza. I like to mix it up... Be great to meet someone who does the same....and who can teach me poker strategy... Im a dumb blonde in that territory.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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ask me and I just might tell you
You should message me if
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You want to explore the city, you want to see live music somewhere, you like to talk about a large variety of topics, you want to hit a sports bar and watch the game, go on a jog, workout, you think on the bright side, you aren't just into sex or yourself, you are looking for a friend, you want to go on a date, you arent perfect and are willing to admit it, you are a nice guy, you have goals, you aren't crazy...did I miss anything? Oh yeah, you can clue me in on what is the big deal about Britney Spears? No really, ;))