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north_sj_girl

39 San Jose, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:58am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Dislikes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a fun and easy going person. I tend to be shy around people I don't know but once you get to know me, I am pretty aggressive.

I am looking for someone who is ambitious, like to learn and advance his career and know that the career path is never ending so you shouldn't have to stop where you at now and continue to strive for a higher and better path.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am working on growing my business. While I am not working, I enjoy cooking, dining, relaxing, hanging out with my family, and trying different restaurants.

I am also a very active person and I try to exercise every day by running early morning at 5am - 6am or bikram yoga on weekend morning.

I have been meditated every morning when I get up. I hear it helps with growing the business, so we'll see. I work about 14-16 hours a day (so on a week it is about 80 to 90 hours a week). Trying to grow the business 10 to 100x where it is now so it is quite a challenge.

Now I am balancing that a little with some personal time and trying to meet someone who is compatible and see if there is a future and perhaps start settling down. Don't let this scare you away as it takes time to get to know a person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning new things, can be a good cook, and trying different things. A pretty active person.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be full of energy and can't stand still and seem to need to keep moving.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love Thai, Japanese, Vietnamese, Italian, and Indian.

I am a foodie and love trying new food but at the same time, I don't like going out to eat so much as it is not healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. internet
2. work
3. sitting still and doing nothing
4. laptop/iphone
5. food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living a long life and how to grow my business 10 to 100x where it is now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Still working and getting prepared for Saturday. Maybe happy hour or get a take out and enjoy a quiet dinner alone while still working away.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't like talking on the phone.
You should message me if
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Ambitious, know what you want , want a serious and long term relationship.