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50 M South Pasadena, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–53
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Poorly), Spanish (Fluently), Urdu (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Looking for a Team-minded, mutually nurturing and soulful relationship. I long her as a warm-hearted woman, conscientious, able to communicate needs and wants, aware of her path for growth, adventurous and connected with her spiritual side...

In short, a special girl to use my Disneyland pass with... or escape anywhere, just because. My type of woman understands that we need to work to make each other "ideal" to one another :-)

Someday you will appear... I am certain the laughter will be limitless, the conversation effortless, the kissing omnipresent, and the chemistry undeniable.

I'm a 100% Latino from Mexico City (in LA in several stints, and finally since '05). Often referred to as refined and polite yet I'm definitely a bit animalistic and (respectfully) wild. Brought up with old-fashioned chivalry and values, but I definitely enjoy having moments of naughtiness and fun mischief. Educated but dumb, wrinkled, dry, wet, intense, tender, impatient, extremely devoted, loyal and physically affectionate, a giver and a total pamperer (not clingy), good heart... but not quite an angel.

Lucky to have traveled extensively. Worked in NY, LA and Mexico. Studied my MBA in Scotland (needed subtitles there!). Divorced since 2002 and a full time Dad of a 15 y. o. spectacular son whom I adore.

Let's connect if you would like to meet a man who would walk proud next to YOU because you are my girl... I would adore listening to you, cherish every inch of you, and love and think of you during every second of my life. I hope you are into sharing laughter, hiking (even at night, no flashlight), music, movies, the Hollywood Bowl, staying in, going out again, into stimulant and goofy conversations... love delicious banter. Someone with life experience and not afraid of KISSING (in all possible shapes, angles and places). She craves for my uniquely prepared quesadillas... and my hugs. Please NO PLASTIC personality... or body parts :-))
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Here and now... Karma awareness... Being an awesome dad!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking the planet's yummiest breakfasts, KISSING, rockin' out, getting grumpy in crowded places, hiking, hugging and giving the best marathon MASSAGES evah...!
Lousy at many other things :-(
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That they don't have a clue :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: Anything by Twain, Coehlo, Tolstoy and H.P. Lovecraft.
POETRY: Jaime Sabines, Joaquín Sabina, even Patti Smith
MOVIES: Dangerous Liaisons, The Fall and Bedazzled. Jack Black! I love Titanic too
SHOWS: not much TV (but I watch Formula 1 races at 5 AM!)
MUSIC: I have 28,000 songs on my iPod (rock, '80s, pop, disco, heavy and classical)... Beethoven, Smetana, Tchaikovsky, Grieg, Led Zep, Genesis, Kate Bush, Morrissey, Randy Rhoads, Rush, Gojira, The Wildhearts, Dido, Everything But The Girl and 2500 more!
FOOD: REAL Mexican, Italian, seafood, sushi... my incomparable quesadillas!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- GOOD HEALTH... without it nothing else matters
- Family/friends
- Finding purpose
- Mind and soul stimulation
- The MUSIC on my 28,000 song iPod
- Passport
- G forces
- Peace of mind
- Frequent kisses, hugs AND love making! (ok, I lost count!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why did the blonde tip toe past the medicine cabinet?
Because she didn't want to wake the sleeping pills

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
avoiding crowds

...and when in a relationship: playing non-stop inside the sheets :-))
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes wear my socks inside-out :-(
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...YOU are looking for a meaningful connection in which we bring out the best of each other

YOU desire a Man for deep intimacy, limitless laughter, effortless conversation and undeniable chemistry & physics

YOU have more books than shoes

YOU don't have pets sleeping on your bed :))